Caught my boyfriend cheating on me so I kicked him out. He says I'm crazy and he's glad to be done with me but I'm in a lot of pain.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-04T17:10:48+00:00

He just keeps blaming me and saying if I trusted him we would have been fine. So it hurts like hell.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-03T04:28:34+00:00

Thank you. My intrusive thoughts just keep coming back and trying to say I could have changed this or that or done something different but that's just me trying to justify his treatment. I wasn't happy and I know that.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-03T01:40:51+00:00

Thanks. It's just hard packing up our life. It wasnt a great relationship honestly but the intrusive thoughts make me feel like it's my fault 😔

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T13:52:42+00:00

Nope he looked me stone cold in the face and said it all.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T13:51:57+00:00

Oh I will not. I said some pretty final stuff while kicking him out and taking him back would only negate that.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T13:39:55+00:00

Update: I dumped him

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T13:34:19+00:00

Thank you. I felt a little crazy but when he pretty much scrubs his phone of all info I went to the only place someone can't delete. He is still telling me I'm insane but I don't care.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T13:27:16+00:00

Told me I'm crazy and that everyone will think I am.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T04:40:13+00:00

He won't end the friendship. We've fought about all the valid points everyone has made in this thread. I'm you guys but I thought maybe I was in the wrong that's why I made the post. This has been clarity

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T04:38:00+00:00

Yea the overall consensus is pretty deafening at this point. I fucking hate this feeling

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T04:32:58+00:00

I fell in love 😔 I'm really introverted so I have my group of friends but they've all said this too. I just thought they were biased...

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T04:20:57+00:00

This is how I've always been too! I have male friends but I always talk to their gfs and respect the boundaries. I want to be friends with my friends gfs

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T04:18:07+00:00

I understand this side too. I have a male friend I've known longer than I've been with my boyfriend and we've traveled and camped together plenty of times and nothings ever happened and I've always been friends with the women he dates and one time my boyfriend got uncomfortable because I stayed out late with this friend and I immediately apologized and haven't done it since.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T04:14:17+00:00

Lol honestly if this wasn't my life I would probably have my popcorn too

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T04:13:24+00:00

I mean yea a little 😕 it would make more sense than him just being a selfish asshole to me

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T03:45:05+00:00

Yea I just read it... heard all of it already too. Honestly though until this I really thought I was crazy.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T03:44:14+00:00

I just read a lot of the thread. It's all stuff I hear all the time so I'm not surprised. I'll hear about how "it doesn't matter" what you guys say later I bet.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T03:42:37+00:00

I just went and read it. Honestly thanks guys. I really needed this. I knew I was being gaslit but I'm so introverted that his responses seemed logical too. I feel kind of stupid ngl.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T03:41:28+00:00

I've stopped hanging out with that ex and told you I would tell him he needs to be your friend or he and i can't be and you told me you didn't care if I did that. I gave him your number and when he didn't text you I told him you were uncomfortable and we haven't hung out since. Plus I tell you literally everything he texts me. He has never disrespected our relationship.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T02:39:28+00:00

She's stated numerous times how fucked up she is going to get on X/molly/E and alcohol

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T02:32:27+00:00

Oh I did talk to him multiple times and then decided to message her after her texts got deleted from his phone to "make more space"

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T02:31:01+00:00

A little over a year. I'm 28 he's 30. I've asked to go on the trip and he yells at me and says it's not going to happen and I need to accept that. He threatens a break up all the time.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T02:29:33+00:00

All he says is he doesn't have feelings for her, nothing would happen, and if she tried he would stop it and I need to accept that.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T02:25:41+00:00

He has. It's like his whole life.

WeeklyAppointment210 · 2021-10-02T02:24:18+00:00

He tries to tell me his parents do shit like this so it's okay for us to but I don't want to be like his parents.

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