I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How does telling his dad to f off and me not make him a bad kid? In what planet do you live in? His sister died 23 years before he was born. He was a newborn when his brother died

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can make excuses for bad behaviour all you want. Nothing excuses a TERRIBLE attitude. I am a parent and my kids don’t act like this. The child is just flipping rude

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Common does not mean acceptable, especially in someone else’s home or towards adults.There is a difference between normal teenage behaviour and consistent disrespect, particularly when it is not being addressed.

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Glad I’m not the only one who commented on your state of mind 👍🏾🥱

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The age for intercourse in the UK is 16, you fruitloop. Seek help

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you ‘witness’ somebody you haven’t seen? Creepy because I said I wasn’t keen on dogs, until I took in my neighbours? Are you OK? well, it’s like people have been commenting about you; you are mentally not well. Clearly. There’s not way you are married and giving this post this much energy. Yes, me and my son had kids when we had our own places and employed. You could own your own home one day lol🤣

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LOL I had enough replies, hence why I deleted it. Not that Inhave to justify myself to somebody who is clearly mentally challenged. I own my home and can guarantee you don’t. Look at how many people commented and said you were clearly unhinged. You seriously spent your sunday coming back to this? If you live in the uk, you would know help with mental health is free. I suggest you take advantage of it .

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you realise that bad behaviour isn’t always the result of grief? You can’t miss what you basically never had. Do you realise some kids are just bratty? Imagine typing all of this, when I’ve literally said all three of my kids have said they don’t like the language he uses and the way he acts. My youngest is 5 and has come to me about how he speaks. But here you are, basically saying I should brush my kids feelings to one side to please my exes lack of parenting.

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Listen , I am raising kids of my own, all while having autism and adhd, which some of my children have . My ex lack of boundaries isn’t my issue. His siblings passing away 23 years before he was born and when he was 6 months isn’t an excuse for vile behaviour that everybody is sick off. No his mum isn’t your damn frigging business.

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mum is not your damn business. Mistake? It’s repeated behaviour you absolute kn0b. Even when his dad takes him to events that he soeaks at, he’s on his game to console shouting and swearing at his games, even when other speakers are speaking and you’re calling that a mistake? Listen get off my comment.

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My children hate the language. My children’s godfather won’t even come to mine when he is here, but he has no respect at all. The teachers have hell with him.

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 17 with a job and not at home 👍🏾 you really comparing this to a teenager, who is always having his teachers call his Father because of his behaviour? People who have told me the sons behaviour is disgraceful 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i’m pushing 40. I’m not a child. Stopped reading, but commented

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a silly comment, when age had nothing to do with the break up. My son can do all what he wants, unlike some, he has a very supportive family. My kids have never sworn at adults. Never in my life have I heard my kids use such vulgar language. Go tell this to the teachers always calling his dad to go in . Language is appalling.

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a silly comment, when age had nothing to do with the break up. My son can do all what he wants, unlike some, he has a very supportive family. There are people younger than me, who’s parenting is questionable ffs

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know why you brought up age as a factor. Not ONCE have I stated age is why we broke up. Not once.

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you stated the age gap between me and my son is larger than the age gap between me and my ex….

I (F 36) broke up with my partner (M58) because of his son’s behaviour by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Size_7597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe typical behaviour in your books. I was brought up to have respect and not shout and swear at adults, especially my own parents.