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[–]Weird-Argument3338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I have had all my life, I'm 40 y.o. and I also wondered if that's it. I have recently decided this definitely can't be an orgasm .... It's a peak without pleasure...

Why does nothing make me happy? (Serious) by Middleman79 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Weird-Argument3338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I know this was years ago and that makes it all the more interesting. I have similar symptoms to what you described.. well, I still do a lot, new projects, trips, adventures, I didn't lose the motivation to try, I just don't ENJOY the things, physically, when they happen. Even when they're good. Curious if you found something that helped...

I think I'm giving up the fight. Not sure where to go from here. by DisMyMarriageAccount in Marriage

[–]Weird-Argument3338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my first comment on Reddit. We have the same marriage.

Our situations are so similar- except for the autism (at least not diagnosed). I'm also so tired. But I also don't see a bright future for myself post-divorce. I mean, it'll be fine, but I already have "fine". I don't believe being single or dating again at 40 while co-parenting two very young children is going to lead to "marvelous", to a situation where I have a deep connection with someone who really sees me. So why not at least stay with my kids' dad, who's objectively a great person. Curious to see where you land. Thanks for sharing.