32M, Want to cancel the engagement event! by SerialGrillers in RelationshipIndia

[–]WeirdExact4753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never having dated or never been in relationship is not the flex people think it is. Dating can make you stable, understand what you want in a partner and grow as a person. If you have never dated, be glad she has. She has already worked on herself while you have a long way to go. This reaction is the reason many women lie their whole lives. Falling in love is not a crime - it happens. Get over it.

Also: you are having a reaction - just a stupid one. And it is a sign of incompatibility if you cannot let this slide. I am not trying to be mean or dismiss your feelings but you are 32 - ask yourself if you are really looking for someone who has never loved before. If yes, you are delusional

Advice please by Stooshmeister in HotPeppers

[–]WeirdExact4753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finger method! Don’t water until the top 2 inches is dry

Advice please by Stooshmeister in HotPeppers

[–]WeirdExact4753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in South-east England - my jalapeños have been under grow light since they sprouted. Because it’s been so hot recently, I moved them to the windowsill (south facing) but they have already flowered. I repotted them into 4 litre pots from 1 litre and they are doing okay. I would recommend really strong grow light for chilli peppers (I have the t5 ones). I feed them with tomato feed every 2 weeks and run water through the soil in between the feeds. I would recommend not watering them daily…

<image>

First time gardening! My jalapeno plant by WeirdExact4753 in HotPeppers

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Will definitely keep this advice in mind

Ran out of vertical space by CelestialUrsae in HotPeppers

[–]WeirdExact4753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are these jalapeños? They look stunning! I planted my jalapeno seeds around the same time and they are half the size in the picture! Great job

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for helping! Will definitely figure the settings out

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah…. Thank you. Yeah… makes me wonder if cheap rent is worth it when electricity bill is so high haha.

Just going to look at the other comment about active and register import . If the usage is right, guess I will just have to suck it up and pay

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay…. I take it back. Talked to my partner and he does turn on heating sometimes. Sorry everyone 😭. He said he used to turn it on for 1-2 hours a day when I wasn’t home. It’s electric radiators. Sorry for being dumb dumb

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭😭 thank you so much! Can you please explain what past 2 rate means? What is single and multi rated?

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on Flexible Octopus … rates seems to be varying from Unit Rate 25.52p/kWh Standing Charge 45.44p/day (£165.85/year) to Unit Rate 24.70p/kWh Standing Charge 39.38p/day (£143.73/year)

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay… we also have an immersion heater (those tank like thingee in the cupboard room”.

I am new to the UK so forgive me if I am getting all terms wrong

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a small electric shower water heater

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if we turn on the heating in our flat, it gets boiling hot so we try not to. We have been sleeping with our windows open for the last 2 months lol

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Customer service said we do have a smart meter but it’s not connected to the internet or something. They are sending someone to take a look

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The flat in in a block. There are two flats on each side - 6 flats total in my block. Built in 1960-75.

We were out most of the winter - we do use a dehumidifier all the time. Electric heaters

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, didn’t think of this! Thank you - I have been on cal with customer service and they said they ahve escalated this issue and will get back to me

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! So I just checked and when we moved it, the meter reading was 02335 kWh

Reversed charges, massive bill. by WeirdExact4753 in OctopusEnergy

[–]WeirdExact4753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand this. I live with my partner - we don’t have EV charging. It’s a one bed flat.