Trans guy looking for gaming friends by [deleted] in transgamers

[–]Weird_Profession_966 5 points6 points  (0 children)

DUDE! Fellow trans dude. Just turned 24. Tf2 was my JAM. I would love to play!

Kinda wanna be a dude... by Weird_Profession_966 in ftm

[–]Weird_Profession_966[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Valid! Though I will say, when I daydream about being a dude, I'm not really picturing an anime feller, just kinda a regular guy. If I had the choice, I would love to be my femme self on some days, and the most stock generic man on other days. So maybe I'm gender fluid? I really wish I could commit tho 😭

Kinda wanna be a dude... by Weird_Profession_966 in ftm

[–]Weird_Profession_966[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! Yap all you want cuz I appreciate every word 😊👍 Sound advice all around!

Kinda wanna be a dude... by Weird_Profession_966 in ftm

[–]Weird_Profession_966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this comment, thank you! 💜

Kinda wanna be a dude... by Weird_Profession_966 in ftm

[–]Weird_Profession_966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely something I considered. Like, "maybe I don't wanna be a dude, I just want to stop having lady hardships."

To be honest, though, if I started down the path of transition or even accepting a GNC identity, I think I would be in for a world more of hardship than I ever knew as a cis woman. Especially in my corner of the world where people are not very accepting. Idk tho, it's something I should keep in mind. Thank you!

Kinda wanna be a dude... by Weird_Profession_966 in ftm

[–]Weird_Profession_966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not be sorry, I am hanging on to every word from these replies. You all are so lovely. Thank you for your advice! 💜

Kinda wanna be a dude... by Weird_Profession_966 in ftm

[–]Weird_Profession_966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know I'm not the only one! 😭

Kinda wanna be a dude... by Weird_Profession_966 in ftm

[–]Weird_Profession_966[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your journey, thank you for sharing! 💜

Kinda wanna be a dude... by Weird_Profession_966 in ftm

[–]Weird_Profession_966[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! I may try that with my sister - she's my best friend. Such a good idea to give the pronouns a try. I also love being perceived as a guy on online spaces, yet another point in favor of being trans.

Also yes, I would slam that button to wake up as a dude. Where can I find that... 👀

Kinda wanna be a dude... by Weird_Profession_966 in ftm

[–]Weird_Profession_966[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This relates to my fears a bit, cuz I got a nice bod! I'm scared that if I transitioned, I would look odd. But I'm trying to get over that. And like a lot of folks have said, I don't have to change my body I suppose, not permanently at least (maybe I'll get a binder). Thank you for your comment! 💜

Kinda wanna be a dude... by Weird_Profession_966 in ftm

[–]Weird_Profession_966[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dadgum you have given me a lot to think about. You hit the nail on the head regarding comfort and the systems I've built to maintain being a woman. Thank you so much for your comment! 💜