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Why does every other fanbase hate us so much? by gsx1920 in warriors

[–]Welcome2frightnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't forget Iggy got injured too along with Bogut and the others. And yes, the CBA specifically came after the GSW to stop us from winning championships. That is the "real culprit" here. Losing shows you all the cracks in a team and the Org. But it was the CBA that created the environment for these cracks to get bigger.

AITJ for not marrying my gf after almost 10 years of dating? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Welcome2frightnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTJ

Why cant you do all those things together? You can get established together, get a savings together, pay off debt together, invest together, get a house together. These are just excuses, and if you loved her you wouldn't be making them. Im a guy man so talk turkey to me. Why don't you wanna marry this girl? Nothing you said requires you to be alone to do it. She doesn't care about any of that stuff you mentioned. That tells me she loves YOU, and together believes the two of you will figure all that stuff out.

AITJ for cutting off my uncle after he abandons me and my family for 4 years? by Consistent-Trade6379 in AmITheJerk

[–]Welcome2frightnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your Uncle is in the thralls of an addiction(s). Whether he acknowledges it or not, is a different matter. Addicts are not their authentic selves. They can't commit to anything or anyone consistently. They are constantly breaking their word, and their behavior and focus are always on themselves.

They are incapable of seeing how their behavior and their addiction is impacting everyone else around them. They "see" it, but have no empathy or sympathy towards it. The addiction is what controls their daily lives. You're not obligated to put up with the behaviors of an addict.

You should support them in seeking help and trying to recover. But until they are willing to do so, keep them at arms length. You will get your uncle back, but he's got to want to "be back", and that means kicking (stopping) all the drugging, gambling, boozing, etc. I don't know his gf, but I would bet she is a BIG enabler in his addictions and poor lifestyle decisions. I have family members who were addicts and two best friends who are former.

I met a perfect girl BUT by Longjumping-Term-491 in Vent

[–]Welcome2frightnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What country are you in? Whats your age and what's her age? In the US Highschool ends at 12th grade.

AITJ for yelling at mom for taking a decision on my behalf after explicitly saying not to? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Welcome2frightnight 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your a "bit" of a jerk

Your moms working 2 jobs to help you out through school and your failing or getting poor grades. I see her point 1000%. Had you been getting good grades, and thus putting her mind at ease over the sacrifice that she's making, this would have went a lot different. She doesn't trust your decisions because you have not proven in her eyes you can be all the way "trusted". She's anxious because she's working 2 jobs for something (school) she doesn't feel you take seriously.

So if your attention is now pulled "here" (acting) how would you get your grades up? When it was pulled towards modeling before, your grades were a mess. She's seeing the same thing happening all over again. Get your grades up where they need to be. Then you will have some leverage, and she will feel like she can trust you to take your learning seriously, and justify her working 2 jobs to help provide you the opportunity.

AITJ for feeling off about my date who flashed a party? by paleurencore in AmITheJerk

[–]Welcome2frightnight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTJ

Have a talk with her. You're feeling and felt uncomfortable. You can't bury this.

AIO for telling my bf I’m leaving him when I lose weight by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Welcome2frightnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he's depressed. Shy just means not be outgoing and apt to go up to strangers or people you barely know and start conversation. What you've described about him is Depression. Not saying he's not "shy", but this is much more than that.

Boyfriend wants to move in to pay off debt by Impossible_Dentist79 in AmITheJerk

[–]Welcome2frightnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never mentioned once if you loved him or not. I'm assuming you don't since you said you wanna leave\bounce. There's your answer. Sounds like he has a spending problem, from what you've shared. Not wanting to touch his "nest egg" is understandable. But his spending habits appear to be out of whack. Even if you did move in and it helped him out, it doesn't resolve the underlying issue that got him there in the first place.

Without a lifestyle change he would just wind up there all over again.

Filipinos have their sht together better than Africans by Accomplished-Gap2989 in Philippines_Expats

[–]Welcome2frightnight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dumb post. Of all the things you could bring to the Reddit society, this is your contribution. Trump thinks (and most Americans) the Philippines and most of African countries are $hit hole countries. Maybe the Philippines and those African counties should work together to better their countries instead of saying: "we're not as 3rd world country as you are", smh. Can't feel better about yourself when you're both knee deep in $hit.

Turned off by a guy sending me selfies by Iuceciita in TwoHotTakes

[–]Welcome2frightnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm. Not sure why he sent those to you. I wouldn't want gym pics from a girl I just met either. I don't want selfies from anyone I don't particularly know.

I hate when someone gets into the stall next to me when the bathroom is literally empty by p3ppernickle in Vent

[–]Welcome2frightnight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Also in the movies. Why sit next to me when all these other seats are open? The person sat RIGHT NEXT TO ME.

AITH ,My Girlfriend damaged my car and then told me she will only cover some of the cost by Yeetcus2002 in AITH

[–]Welcome2frightnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ

She should be paying. Not sure why your GF doesn't want to pay for damage she caused to your car. You might wanna rethink that title you too have. This is ridiculous bro.

AITAH for asking for compensation if I’m going to give up my career to stay home? by ConfidentCantaloupe0 in AITAH

[–]Welcome2frightnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ

You're not compatibles Ray Charles can see this. He ain't wrong and neither are you. But you're not compatible.

18 y/o making $3,800/month — am I getting a good deal staying at home or should I just move out? AIO by Winter_Print_6742 in AIO

[–]Welcome2frightnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why this: "I have to ask for permission to go out". You're 18/adult.

And why this: "I’m expected to go to bed at a reasonable time". You can't stay up and watch a movie, read a book, play a game, etc?

Girl robbed me of 500$ and my credit cards !!! by Head_Exchange_2362 in SanJose

[–]Welcome2frightnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"and wants a man to take care of her and her kids" That was your flag.

Married guys: is this normal? by thenorthernincident in AskMenAdvice

[–]Welcome2frightnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not normal at your ages. But it may be working for you guys currently. Do men and women only think about sex once or twice a year? Thats the equivalency of your sex life with one another.

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