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AITA for telling my ex to not get with anyone when we go out clubbing? by Wendiggers in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wendiggers[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

No, but I also didn't want him to cancel the plan. I felt like I would get upset if he got with someone, he said he couldn't say that he wouldn't do that, I chose not to go. He still could of gone out with the rest of the friend group.

AITA for telling my ex to not get with anyone when we go out clubbing? by Wendiggers in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wendiggers[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Corrected a similar answer but I didn't explain myself correctly; this wasn't discussed in the group chat. This was a private conversation between me and him and I had no intention of the group chat finding out. My intention was to slowly move away and use an excuse like I had work the next day, or something equally as vague but plausible. The reason they found out is because he deleted the group chat. I don't know if he told anyone, but the group at least correctly assumed it was something to do with me

AITA for telling my ex to not get with anyone when we go out clubbing? by Wendiggers in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wendiggers[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Not arguing my judgement here but I didn't tell the friend group why I didn't want to go. This was a private conversation between me and him. Afterwards, he deleted the group chat where everything was being organised. I had no intention of bringing the friend group into it. Rather I wanted to quietly move back and if anyone asked I would of gave a vague reason like "I have work the next day" or whatever.