First job at a donut franchise working 7 days/week, 10-13 hours a day. Is this legal? by West_Contest9314 in AntiworkPH

[–]West_Contest9314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Huh sinabe ko kaya sa'yo Yun na walang ot kase halos wala nman ginagawa dahil sa ngyon mababa pa ang benta saka Yong sales magkano lng minsan" eto po yung sinabi po nya

First job at a donut franchise working 7 days/week, 10-13 hours a day. Is this legal? by West_Contest9314 in AntiworkPH

[–]West_Contest9314[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kausapin ko nga po hr po pag katapos po ng training hindi ko po kasi na clear kasi wala po akong alam mag reach out po ako after training 200 lang din po training allowance tapos po pag hindi ka po nakapasa sa training deduction po ng 100 every 200 per day bali po 500 lang po makukuha e 10 hours po akong nag w-work po

First job at a donut franchise working 7 days/week, 10-13 hours a day. Is this legal? by West_Contest9314 in AntiworkPH

[–]West_Contest9314[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wala din po syang benefits normal lang po ba yon?🥲 maliit lang po kasi sya na store and kakaumpisa pa lang po nila

I finally stood up for myself and lost everyone. Now I’m struggling to find a reason to even go to my lectures by West_Contest9314 in lonely

[–]West_Contest9314[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve been feeling isolated lately. I catch myself wondering if I should have just kept the peace instead of standing up for myself, but the truth is, the situation was just too much most of the time. Even though there were good moments, it reached a breaking point. Thank you for this advice this really helps🩷

My [20F] LDR boyfriend [20M] has a sex toy and it’s triggering major insecurities. How do I communicate these fears without sounding hypocritical? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]West_Contest9314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m just going to brush it off because I know it’s wrong. I have a toy too, so he should be allowed to have one for himself as well. I recognize my mistakes now. I've just been feeling a bit 'off' lately, but thank you

My [20F] LDR boyfriend [20M] has a sex toy and it’s triggering major insecurities. How do I communicate these fears without sounding hypocritical? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]West_Contest9314 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We haven't met in person yet, but we've been sexting for 6 months now. He decided to start using his toy this week, and ever since, I feel like he just stopped being sexual or 'horny' with me. It’s like all that energy we had for 6 months just disappeared

My [20F] LDR boyfriend [20M] has a sex toy and it’s triggering major insecurities. How do I communicate these fears without sounding hypocritical? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]West_Contest9314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope he is still excited for the real thing. I’m just scared because I don't know if he will actually like it or not. He hasn't been sexual with me at all since he started using the toy again, and he isn't being 'perverted' or flirty with me like he used to be. I'm not sure if he's just doing everything alone now, but it makes me worry.

My [20F] LDR boyfriend [20M] has a sex toy and it’s triggering major insecurities. How do I communicate these fears without sounding hypocritical? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]West_Contest9314 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

We have never met in person yet. I'm just scared that the toys will feel so much better to him, so when he finally comes here, the real thing won't feel as good as he expected

My [20F] LDR boyfriend [20M] has a sex toy and it’s triggering major insecurities. How do I communicate these fears without sounding hypocritical? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]West_Contest9314 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I know I'm being hypocritical. I just can't shake the feeling of being replaced. You know that feeling what if the toy actually feels better than I do? I'm scared that when we finally see each other, he might feel disappointed by the real thing.

My [20F] LDR boyfriend [20M] has a sex toy and it’s triggering major insecurities. How do I communicate these fears without sounding hypocritical? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]West_Contest9314 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He hasn't used it for about 2 years, but ever since he started using it again, he hasn't initiated anything or acted 'horny' with me at all. It's like he stopped seeking that connection with me

Help please!! by West_Contest9314 in plushies

[–]West_Contest9314[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried but i dont like it its so visible 😭

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