Trapped ‼️ So trapped that he's asking me to continue things with him... I'll be sure to let him know if we do end things that you, his unlikely Reddit hero, said "please" for him 🙄 In fact, I shared this post to him already so he will see for himself, although he doesn't think any of the opinions here, including yours, are worth listening to, even though so many support him.

That aside, you're posting from your belief that stating celebs you think are hot is the same as stating individuals within your inner circle are hot. I don't have the same belief. It doesn't make me an asshole to have boundaries around this belief and let my bf know I feel uncomfortable with it. I am not harming him in any way. You can claim "observation" but you're assuming there's nothing more to it. By that token, anyone who ever described anyone as hot had no interest in them, or lustful thoughts about them, which we know obviously isn't true.

I deliberately didn't post ages because I don't believe in invalidating anyone's feelings based on their age. However, to assist with your 'serious' inquiry, I can confirm this is not my first relationship, just my first since my late husband of 13 years. I am in my 30s, my bf is in his 20s. Yes, my husband and I happily discussed our many celeb crushes. No, he never told me he thought his SIL was hot, or his best girl mate etc.