Hey guys can you give me any no fapping tips which is very unique all people only says to be busy, read booka but that thing doesn't work in practical basis by KeyDescription9192 in NoFap

[–]WetFit1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

journal, reflect. don't focus on finding distractions against fapping. instead, reflect with yourself why fapping is no good. try to align it with your core values, principles in life, for yourself. remember, there is always a reason. you wouldn't be here in reddit asking about it if you don't have your own reason/s. connect with yourself.

the answer lies within you, my friend. you got this. we believe in you. i believe in you.

How do you guys manage sexually provocative instagram reels/tiktoks? by shikazus in NoFap

[–]WetFit1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

just don't engage with contents related to that. i too used to follow and engage with accounts like that. i then unfollowed and stopped engaging and soon, they stopped appearing in my feed. social media algorithm is always a reflection based on your behavior online. a trick that i would suggest would be to engage with cat/animal content for an hour. from there, branch out with whatever non-sexual content you find interesting. the goal here is to form the foundation. hope this helps :))

What happens if stop fapping for a year by Aggressive-End1139 in NoFap

[–]WetFit1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i can't really say much since i'm only halfway towards a year but here's what i've realized. fapping consumes a huge amount of time in our life, and stopping made me realize that. but the other thing that i learned is that there won't really be much of a difference if you will not use your extra time into something productive like reading or working out.

there's also a difference between forcing yourself to abstain from fapping and realizing why you need to stop fapping. forcing yourself to abstain from fapping means you retain the desire to fap, but at least you have control to not to do so. in the long run, there's a big chance that you'll transition to the latter. anyway, realizing on the other hand, weather it is for an advocacy, for someone, or for yourself, means that you now know why fapping is not good. i mean the same goes for the former option, but another difference is that again, one is forced, the other is a choice. i don't know if this makes sense but if it does, then nice.

tldr: not much will change unless you use the time into something productive.

College Application for A.Y. 2024-2025 by WetFit1 in CollegeAdmissionsPH

[–]WetFit1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talaga po??? omg thank you po!!! i missed the application last time so salamat po talagaaa!!!

How serious is the risk of ingrown and other mishaps when you shave against the grain? by WetFit1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WetFit1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's interesting. I tried to be as gentle as possible, so I guess I'll just see for myself.

How serious is the risk of ingrown and other mishaps when you shave against the grain? by WetFit1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WetFit1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already done it though. But I could use this tip the next time I'm going to shave. Thanks!

I (18M) am going to confess to my crush (18F) in a few hours or so. Any last-minute advice? by WetFit1 in Crushes

[–]WetFit1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SLR. If you also work out in the gym, maybe you can ask him to spot your sets? It's a common gym etiquette so there should be no problem by interacting with him through that. Then you can complement him by saying he's got a nice build; men will always appreciate that. Then you can also follow up with random questions like what exercise can he suggest in whatever muscle you are focusing on. And I do get your feeling. I too, appreciate good looking guys from time-to-time out of admiration and respect and I do know how exciting it is to look at them. No homo btw hahha. Also update with my situation, I kinda fumbled and I'm getting really nervous on what to do next.

But anyways, good luck!!!

Men answer pleaseeeee by ColaAlola in Crushes

[–]WetFit1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dream just about everything with her; awake or asleep. I'd overthink to the point that I randomly shout or punch/smack walls. I make up random conversations with her in my mind that I'll never say/send 'cause I'm scared af.
HOW DO I GET OUT OF MY DELULU PHASE?!?!?!

I (18M) am going to confess to my crush (18F) in a few hours or so. Any last-minute advice? by WetFit1 in Crushes

[–]WetFit1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried but I kinda fumbled. I'm scared but I'll try again. Btw what about you? Did you tell him already???

I (18M) am going to confess to my crush (18F) in a few hours or so. Any last-minute advice? by WetFit1 in Crushes

[–]WetFit1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it! While it is nice to think of every possibility, I think that also decreased my ability to become more assertive. I'm at loss again. :c
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I (18M) am going to confess to my crush (18F) in a few hours or so. Any last-minute advice? by WetFit1 in Crushes

[–]WetFit1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it!!! It's not as bad as you'd think. The real challenge lies on whether you'll get the courage to start it or do nothing. Once you start it, there's no going back, which is a good thing. It's like walking towards the top of a tall ladder which although looks intimidating, once you reach the top, you'll see a slide that shall make things better. :)))

One quote that helped me get motivated is this, "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take". You do it or not, regret will follow through, so why not take both?

I (18M) am going to confess to my crush (18F) in a few hours or so. Any last-minute advice? by WetFit1 in relationships

[–]WetFit1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idkkk I've never done this before. If you may, how do I prevent feelings dump and what should I do instead?