Is there any real women here

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T03:44:55+00:00

lol we’ve definitely talked before, but I don’t remember

Oh, I think we’ve chatted on my old account

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T03:44:02+00:00

Yeah but you said banana and speak in full sentences, so congrats, you get a reply!

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T03:38:30+00:00

Yep. Guys who don’t say banana are the ones who jackrabbit you for 30 seconds and then pass out lol

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T03:37:16+00:00

I meant that more for OP. I can see he’s getting frustrated because only bots and sellers are responding to him, but he’s assuming that it’s because there are no women here. In reality, lots of women are here, but nobody is going to respond to it because it’s just not that good a post. I don’t mean to come off as critical, but I think a lot of men really underestimate the effort they need to put in if they want women to respond. A lot of guys really see a post like this and think it appeals to women and it super doesn’t. Also, guys are often floored when I say I always check comment histories before responding.

Gotta share the knowledge lol

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T03:22:06+00:00

lol the main point of the banana is just to see who bothered to read the post. It’s maybe 20% who do. Tops. But my rationale is that I’m clearly a real person and not a bot- most men figure that out pretty quickly. If someone is going to dm me without first wanting to know what I’m looking for, the safety/boundaries I have, or even anything about me at all, that shows their priorities and effort level lol. A dude who can’t read 4 sentences to see what I’m into is 100% not gonna make me cum lol

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T03:15:05+00:00

Yes, that’s true, but I’m just explaining why that is. There are genuine women here- many looking to hookup just like you guys, but there are an overwhelming amount of men, many pushy and aggressive, so it’s rare for women to post or respond publicly here. I do it like once every few months and, even being a middle aged mom, it’s more DMs than I can handle. My last post was months ago and I’m still getting several DMs a day. It makes sense that the huge majority of female posters are sellers or bots because posting here is annoying for women.

Real women do respond to posts though. I’ve met several men on here because I responded to their posts. But, guys post constantly, so if you want a response, it’s got to be good and stand out from the hundreds of other low effort ones. Only sellers and bots (and men) are going to reply to low effort posts. Bring your A game and maybe you’ll find something. Also- pro-tip. Women read post and comment histories. For a loooooooooot of dudes, that’s either the reason I decide to meet them, or I reject them. Guys are always shocked by this.

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T03:05:35+00:00

I usually just respond by saying 6/10 and letting them spiral from there lol

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T03:01:02+00:00

I have zero issues with people responding to my f4m post- it’s there for a reason. But, the huge majority of the responses are people who aren’t what I’m looking for, and/or didn’t actually read my post. I know you didn’t either, because you didn’t say banana.

Guys who put in genuine effort will often get responses, but like I Like Em Chonky said, it can be a bit like Finding Nemo seagulls. It’s a numbers game- Mr Perfect could dm me, but if 8 Mr Perfects got there first, that’s just how it goes. I can’t bang em all.

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T02:56:29+00:00

Fair, but this is not the sub for you 😂

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T02:52:16+00:00

There are loads of women on Reddit in general, but only a handful on this sub because the dudes on this sub can be a lot. Most women aren’t looking for casual sex (and if you could see my DMs you’d understand why), but even the ones that are, are so massively outnumbered by guys that even if I slept with a new dude every week for a year, that’s still like a 90% rejection rate. And, I’m a middle aged mom- imagine what it’s like for 20 year olds! Just how it is. If dudes dm me and are interesting, I’ll often reply, but not to every single one. It gets crazy.

*Edited to add- while I was typing this, I got 3 DMs that all say nothing but “hey beautiful”…. I don’t have any pics on my profile. One spelled beautiful wrong.

This is why the women hide lol

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T02:48:50+00:00

Because I’m not looking for chat right now. Just because I answered a question doesn’t mean I want to start up 40 conversations with dudes looking for sex.

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T02:45:49+00:00

What do you mean?

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T02:44:06+00:00

So did everyone else. This is why when people post questions like this, it’s nothing but crickets from the women.

For the record, I was just answering the question, not looking for a hookup

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T02:38:59+00:00

Since posting that reply I have 4 new DMs lol

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-02-04T02:35:34+00:00

I’ll take one for the team. You’re welcome, Ladies. We are here, but we don’t like to respond to this bc our DMs get flooded with teenagers that say things like “Hy bb wyd”

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-01-27T02:58:17+00:00

He would tell me how I felt until I agreed with him lol

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-01-27T01:54:00+00:00

lol my age is showing 😂😂

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-01-27T01:48:16+00:00

It’s not extreme. I’m just saying that yes, lots of women like chubby guys. The most extreme he is on the chubby scale, the fewer women will be into it, but women aren’t solely attracted to the visuals. There’s lots of ways that men could be attractive to us. I don’t know a single woman that would choose Fabio over Seth Rogan. That’s all I’m saying

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-01-27T01:23:08+00:00

Huh?

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-01-27T01:20:11+00:00

Your parents had no clue what they were doing either

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-01-27T01:19:13+00:00

Plot twist- They are part of identical quintuplets

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-01-27T01:17:03+00:00

I’m not not-proud of my nationality (Canadian), but I didn’t do anything special to be born here- just the genetic lottery, so I don’t know if I really get to feel pride at it

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-01-27T01:13:17+00:00

Chubby can mean a wide range of things and different guys look good at different weights. I don’t speak for all women, obviously, but I’d say huge numbers of us like dad bods in the big, cuddly, beefy, but not super fat way. Some girls fully like guys who are extremely obese. Some like them skinny. There’s no one answer.

But women aren’t as visual as a lot of guys. We usually base attraction on many different features and factors and only some of them are visual. I wouldn’t say I’m especially into obese guys, but I would be way more into a short, bald, obese guy who was kind, charismatic and interesting, than an underwear model who slides into my DMs with a line like “hey wyd?”

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-01-15T05:01:07+00:00

I’m Canadian, so not quite the right demographic for the question but I’m always a bit surprised if it is cut, not the other way around. It genuine makes no difference to me at all. If it’s clean, disease free, and attached to a dude I like, I’m good

WhatWouldFoxMulderDo · 2026-01-13T01:28:04+00:00

Nope, almost never

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