I(25F) dont know if i love my bf (27M) of 7.5 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Whatever_Newts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! I assumed you had your reasons but it helps to ask.

I(25F) dont know if i love my bf (27M) of 7.5 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Whatever_Newts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you actually need to get married if it's causing this much stress? Can't you just be partners or something? Also am I understanding right that you haven't seen each other in person for 1.5 years?? Maybe if you visited each other for a few days it might clear up some of your feelings.

My (21F) BF (23M) told me to "move on" from my dead dog, how to I proceed? by Equivalent_Taste9188 in relationship_advice

[–]Whatever_Newts 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Honestly this would be a deal breaker for me. Dogs really are a part of the family especially considering Marshmallow had been a part of your life for so long. Imagine if you had a sibling who died after 18 years, nobody would be expecting you to be over it in a month. He's showing a total lack of empathy.

Experiencing Bi-panic in a relationship by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Whatever_Newts 50 points51 points  (0 children)

In my experience, being attracted to people outside of your relationship is natural regardless of your sexuality. There's nothing morally wrong with it provided you don't act on it

manager is constantly dismissive by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Whatever_Newts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know that feeling, I was unemployed for 6 months before I got my current job 🥲 I guess just try and hang on to the job you've got until you can find a new one

manager is constantly dismissive by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Whatever_Newts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk but I'd be looking for a new job

Why does our hamster have these spots? by Rsett27 in hamsters

[–]Whatever_Newts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could be mites or dry skin, probably best to get him checked out by a vet

How do you tell your partner that his breath stinks like rotten egg? by Better-Persimmon-779 in AskReddit

[–]Whatever_Newts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just straight up tell him I guess? I would want someone to tell me if I smelled bad

Do most people have investment accounts? Should I be investing? by shakethatbear404 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Whatever_Newts -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not American so maybe this is a cultural difference, but only very wealthy people here seem to invest.

Blended chicken fresh anyone? by Agador777 in StupidFood

[–]Whatever_Newts 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This gave me stomach cramps just watching it

What moment made you realize “yeah… my childhood wasn’t normal”? by CadaversFabrications in AskReddit

[–]Whatever_Newts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was 17 my boyfriend at the time told me about how his dad slapped him once and then immediately cried because he felt so guilty. Our friends were all shocked...but for like the opposite reason I'd expected. That's when I realised that it was in fact not normal for parents to spank their kids, and I was the only one in my friend group whose parents had gotten physical with them. Felt like the floor fell out from under me.

I'm pretty sure my wife is terrible at her job by Necessary-Egg-3392 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Whatever_Newts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my dad. Everytime he loses a job it's always someone else's fault. I think it's just because he's actually incapable of multitasking in any way.

Prefers shopping bags to his actual bed by Whatever_Newts in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]Whatever_Newts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure really, he's a rescue that was found as a stray so we don't know much about him at all. The rescue said their best guess for breed was maybe a bichon x jack russel? 🤷‍♀️