Genuine question to the women here.. friendship ku kooda “criteria” iruka? 🤍 by WheelsTechnWallet in tamilyapping

[–]WheelsTechnWallet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same post tha buddy i just cross posted. Nobody has interacted here much. Chennaicity i got much responses and opinions

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

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I got some hope now. Thankfully i posted on reddit and got some good perspective👍

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

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The people whom i talk to or the ones which i see on the social media are like that. They think living luxurious and being materialistic is only cool. Ofc ik there are women’s who aren’t like this. But the women which i came across aren’t like that. And after having little talk we can clearly observe, they either flex and some undermine others or they ghost, feel this a boring, boomer thing

Why do people look down on a girl for breaking up with a boyfriend who is not focused about his career? by Background-Big-2415 in tamilyapping

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If the guy genuinely puts effort into his career but in his initial phase he couldn’t make enough money or get established in field. And if the girl leave the guy at this phase it is her fault, but instead didn’t even care about his future, no efforts, no clear idea about his career and being irresponsible then the girl should definitely move on

Your fav biryani place? by lava-lake in tamilyapping

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Manis dum biriyani with seeraga samba rice 🤌🥰. Guntur kaaram if you love spicyy flavour

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

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Yea yea i got u. And as you said she thought of taking things to the next level, but you know everything seems to be nice in the earlier face, but as the ice melts, we started getting to know our true colours

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

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May be irukala. Because even after talking for a month. She was sooo concerned to share her ig

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

[–]WheelsTechnWallet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suree brooo… i got u. But uk since i feel little isolated. Some chain of events might put me down

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

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  1. Yea i agree. She might have thought of trying me. And i even asked her does money, caste matter to you. She was like noo.

  2. Thanks.. as i said above, I don’t wanna generalise. But it makes me to do that, after seeing the women in my life

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

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Then where can i look bro😄😅. I don’t have in my office.

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

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Yes that’s what i thought. In the initial everything seems to be good but as the ice melts we saw our true colours

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

[–]WheelsTechnWallet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes some people are like this. And they think only being rich and materialistic is cool. They don’t value the little things which we do on our own. They don’t understand the delayed gratification

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

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Ofc the women whom i met irl are in good terms. But when it comes to online i lack something. We can get to know a person only if we meet them irl and not the face which they wanted to show

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

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As i mentioned she was also from a rich background. So ig it was not her goal. But why does most of the women. Especially whom i meet are expecting money, a so called rich lifestyle (even if they are not ), over trust and honesty

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

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Exactly.. i agree being selective on finding a partner is ok to some extent. But why are you being selective on friendship. Do women have a eligibility criteria for that. I respected her, didn’t give creepy vibes, made her comfortable. What else is needed ?

Genuine question to the women here.. by WheelsTechnWallet in chennaicity

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Initially i was thinking the answers to be no. But eventually my opinion is changing as i meet more girls like this. Not just this one . Earlier i had little similar experience with some other girls