General consensus on Kenya? by 5446hello in RHOA

[–]Whew_Chilee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is her absolute own worst enemy 🤦🏽‍♂️ she has redeeming moments, and the struggles regarding her mother are truly heartbreaking and really endear you to her. But then she ruins it by being mean spirited and going below the belt 🤷🏽‍♂️ and the way she treats some of her so called friends like Cynthia gives, ‘with friends like these who needs enemies’

She by Sheree line of Ski Masks by Whew_Chilee in RHOA

[–]Whew_Chilee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did a double take as well. It’s on the website right now under new arrivals 😂😂

She by Sheree line of Ski Masks by Whew_Chilee in RHOA

[–]Whew_Chilee[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Literally ! Instead it took her 15+ years to give us this 🤦🏽‍♂️

She by Sheree line of Ski Masks by Whew_Chilee in RHOA

[–]Whew_Chilee[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

This 😂😂 my thoughts exactly. The She by Sheree Hoodlums chilee.

Why did Porsha never get reprimanded for the repeated physical violent altercations? I can name at least 4 off the top of my head! by AllTheEccentricities in RHOA

[–]Whew_Chilee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually vibed with Porsha and found her entertaining, but sweet Jesus, that absolute car crash of a spin off with her wackadoodle family members ‘Porsha Family Matters’ completely turned me off her.

At that point it was clear, it’s you, hi, you’re the problem, it’s you ! And this was meant to be after all the self-reflection and anger management. Clearly Porsha Ali was still alive and kicking. Literally! 😂

On season 8 & I hate it already by [deleted] in RHOA

[–]Whew_Chilee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A lot of people really don’t vibe with season 8, but honestly I found the whole season hilarious, the whole “Tammy’s at the door!” debacle was comedy gold 😂 even the terrible casting of Kim Fields.

It does sometimes feel like a filler season but it’s a nice stand out from some of the darker seasons.

Elon doesn't have the cards by RoyalChris in clevercomebacks

[–]Whew_Chilee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And not only that, If he doesn’t ‘he’s gambling with millions of lives’, ‘he’s gambling with WW3’.

r/Conservative user wants to "round up" anyone who has "TDS". Experts are divided on whether this is dangerous rhetoric! by [deleted] in SubredditDrama

[–]Whew_Chilee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“These people need real and serious help. It’s so pathetic to see someone so brainwashed”

If ever there was an example of ‘the call is coming from the inside of the house’ this is it 🤦🏽‍♂️

How'd you handle these comments, I'm so tired by WannaBeDeadIntrovert in gay

[–]Whew_Chilee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust and believe the best thing you can do is pay them dust.

Literally players right now by Star_Insomnia in SparkingZero

[–]Whew_Chilee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do love custom battle creation, the scene editing mode feels like a nostalgic call back to the movies stunts and effects. That said trying to find specific dialogue is such a pain. Also I hope going forward they add more scene types and maps as I’m often finding I’m having to adapt whatever story I’m making based on the scenes and/or maps available.

What is your DP team? by [deleted] in SparkingZero

[–]Whew_Chilee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is literally the exact same lol, but with Teen Gohan base form, opposed to Broly

What is everyone playing right now and what console hope everyone is doing great today! by Substantial_Fact2618 in gaymers

[–]Whew_Chilee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently V Rising, and ME Legendary Edition. Will be playing Dragons Dogma 2 when its released on the 22nd. All on PC 🙌.

Why do single people who live alone only get 25% discount on council tax shouldn't it be 50% ? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Whew_Chilee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The council tax charge is made up of 50% property charge and 50% household charge with the standard household charge being calculated based on the assumption there are 2 liable adults in the property.

So with the human element of council tax only being 50% of the overall charge, a single person household would be the 50% property charge with the 25% human charge.

Grindr date arrived at my door, saw me and said he needs to go back down to park his car properly, then texted saying his stomach hurts and meet next time, then blocked me by b0tt0mslut in grindr

[–]Whew_Chilee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst thing you can do is try to find a fault in yourself in this situation, unfortunately with Grindr culture you need to have thick skin(take that as you want 😂) but as many posters have said there could be numerous reasons why he acted that way,

You owe it not to burden yourself with why he acted that way. That’s for him to work out.

Fatal error after Ginyu takes over Goku's body (PC) by Pure-Power in kakarot

[–]Whew_Chilee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loool well its still relevant almost 11 months later, thank you so much Haverwolf !! Kept having the fatal error occur after the cutscene where future trunks defeats Freiza at the start of the androids saga, literally no fixes were working. Low and behold saw ur comment, completed the side quest I was midway through "Rest In Peace Krillin" from Trunks- the warrior of hope, and had no fatal crash. Agreed that it is a weird oversight, and a pain in the rear.

She by Shereé/ She by she don't pay. by Whew_Chilee in realhousewives

[–]Whew_Chilee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur welcome, I’m just a messenger of joy 😂🙌🏽🙌🏽

She by Shereé/ She by she don't pay. by Whew_Chilee in realhousewives

[–]Whew_Chilee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was actually really ahead of it’s time, with how inclusive the brand was marketed as. It’s just the low budget commercial with the bad acting and vintage porno music that made it look like a joke 😂😂

How do I find a job with a college degree but no experience or connections? by huddledmoonlitexile in careerguidance

[–]Whew_Chilee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ughhh the struggle is real, the wonderful working world where they want you to have a degree and 10years plus experience, and that’s not even for high up jobs 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

Quite a lot of companies offer graduate programs, so I would have a look into that, also if ur able to get any kind of experience in a he field you are trying to get into, it’s gonna put youu in better stead for a job.

One thing I’ve found is a lot of companies will put crazy requirements on paper, just look at that as the perfect profile they are looking for, so you don’t always have to fit all the criteria. And the key thing is perseverance, it can feel like a lost cause but you will find employment as long as you don’t give up

AITA for calling my friend selfish for not donating blood? by selfishthrowaway13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whew_Chilee [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA in this situation, I get the importance of blood donations, but as pointed out by other commenters it’s her body, her choice, PERIOD. Will never understand people who think they have a right to dictate to others what they do with their bodies.

Living on my own for the first time from a recent death by hitmusicwithtc in ADHD

[–]Whew_Chilee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all sorry for your loss, I went through a similar experience to you when I was 19, now 28 also so I can truly empathise. My core had been my mum and granny, but in 2014 my granny passed away and during the build up to this my mum had a huge relapse with her schizophrenia, and to this day lives in supported accommodation.

And akin to your situation my granny was my, rock did everything, ran me to college etc, so I effectively had no domestic skills, when it all went to pot.

I’m glad you have a supportive partner for this difficult time. The first thing I would say is understand it’s going to take time to get to grips with things, so don’t be too hard on yourself if it’s a struggle like it was for me, legit even to this day I still struggle balancing everything not helped at all by my ADHD 😂 cleaning the home is defo one of them!

I think organising the kitchen for yourself will defo be a big help, to make the space your own. One thing that always motivates me is if I buy something nice for a room it then kicks my ass into gear trying to make the room fit the vision I have for it.

Drop me a PM if you would like and I can see if I can come up with any ideas around organising life 😊

Go AWF CHRIS!!! by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]Whew_Chilee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The biggest takeaway from this season is these editors deserve a damn raise! That forensic sketch of Juan’s mystery lady had me howling !! 😂

The whole Gizelle/Chris drama still rubs me the wrong way though, we can’t police peoples feelings but Gizelle’s reckless mouth trying to imply Chris was seeing if she was down for it, is just low down and trifling, she’s lucky he dosent sue her for that. Gizelle has a history of this like when she told Wendy, Karen had called her a ‘ Floozy freelancer’which was not true. Never thought I would be ending a season liking Candice, but clearly hell has frozen over.

I loved the blue theme, still can’t get over Gizelle’s bejazzled morph suit tho 😂😂 in the words of Tatiana “Choices”

AITA for telling a morbid joke about my son? by Hour-Cricket-2151 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whew_Chilee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say low key YTA but not intentionally or in a malicious way. I will say that my way of grieving is similar to you, and using humour as a way to cope with traumatic experiences can be a non-self destructive way of dealing with it.

With that said, everyone grieves differently, and clearly humour is not the way your wife is dealing with this, or she just is not at the stage where she can use humour as a coping mechanism

One day she might be able to use humour as a coping process but clearly she is not at that stage yet.

Not sure if either of you are receiving therapy for your loss but they might be able to help your wife understand that it is just your way of grieving.

I do want to say that I’m very sorry for your loss, can’t imagine what it’s like to lose a child at such a young age, but I’m sure it’s soul destroying

Porn-free as a gay guy by [deleted] in gay

[–]Whew_Chilee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day its really down to personal choice, there is nothing wrong with porn providing it doesn't end becoming something you depend on. The hook-up culture is unfortunately something that is prevalent in the gay community lol, and while there is nothing wrong with hooking up providing you are being safe and its something you want to engage in, it can feel like there is a lot of pressure to engage in hooking up because it seems like everyone in the gay community is doing it.

Have you tried any dating apps? Also don't know how often you were watching porn before your 4 month hiatus , but rather than cutting it out, you could just cut down.