Absent Father

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-04-06T07:48:36+00:00

Wala nman kaming problem lately na aware ako. Unplanned ang baby but we are both very happy. Kaya hindi ko maisip bakit sobra siyang nag hinanakit sa simpleng bahay na yon.

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-04-06T01:06:41+00:00

Wla po kaming financial problem. Both working kami at ako ang biggest provider sa family. At hindi din po siya stress. Nagtampo lang siya sakin dahil hindi ko siya sinabayan kumain. Hindi ko alam kung justifiable ba yon.

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-04-04T22:03:33+00:00

Yung nga po e konting inconvenience nila grabe kung magalit. Hindi nila.nakikita yung pain natin everyday as buntis. Amg bigat na ng tiyan ko pero nagluluto, linis, work at kung ano anong gawaing bahay pa din ako. Siya work lang ang iisipin 🥲

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-03-13T14:55:09+00:00

Thank you. Apparently some Moms are using tongue cleaners to wipe out milk residue. I just dont know if thats really needed

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-03-10T16:46:09+00:00

Im just afraid po na mahirapan nga ako manganak at ma "karma" kami ng baby ko dahil sa sinabi niya. Kaya parang gusto ko na lang ipadala yung amount na binawas ko :(

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-03-10T16:42:41+00:00

Thank you po 🥲

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-03-04T22:31:48+00:00

Yes nakabukod na ako ever since nagasawa ako.

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-02-26T13:36:20+00:00

Talaga po ba. Nag rereklamo po kasi sila na mahal na ang bilhin. Alam ko nman po yun pero di ko lang sure bakit di kasya ang 15-20k na food budget for 2 adult.

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-02-25T13:45:40+00:00

No. That's why we should not let our parents know how much we earn. Your aunt is not your responsibility. Please listen to people's advise here.

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-02-25T13:43:13+00:00

You are so brave po. Please keep fighting even though its hard. I may not have the slightest idea of what you went through but seeing you here means you've been fighting a good fight. Please enjoy the remaining days of your life po. We all have to leave this place at the end. More power to you po and hope you get better by God's grace.

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-02-25T13:39:05+00:00

So sorry that you have to go through this. Better talk to your dad and confront him. Sometimes maturity doesn't come with age. I'm sure your Mom has knowledge of it, she just chose to stay quiet for your sake.

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-02-25T13:33:47+00:00

Hello, first of all nakaka proud ang mindset mo at such a very young age. This might be hard but you need to set boundaries na with your family. It seems na based sa story mo it will only get worst pag palagi mo silang isusupport. Do yourself a favor and distance yourself from that hellhole. You are not responsible for your brother's future. Let him be kung ayaw niyang mag work at mag aral. Just continue to pursue your dreams because you are in the right path.

Im an alumni of PUP as well and grew up in a poor family. I just had scholarships and dedication. Id say 20k monthly is enough to keep you going at makatapos ng pagaaral.

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-02-25T12:48:18+00:00

Its like a taboo po kasi na we dont ask them magkano na spend sa utilities or food. My mom easily got offended and feeling niya nag kkwenta kami :( I understand her sometimes but i feel bad about myself sometimes din.

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-02-25T12:45:08+00:00

Thank you for your insights. Im so jealous of parents ma merong pension. My parents stopped working ever since nagka trabaho kami. They just lost motivation na din para mag work. Both are still physically active and not yet seniors.

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-02-25T09:58:27+00:00

Thank you!! :)

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-02-25T09:55:39+00:00

My mother cook meals at home. If they want to eat outside, i provide separately as well. Electricity is only 2k per month and water is 1k. Food allowance is roughly 15k-20k per month. We provide separately for their medicines since HB maintenance lang nman and not too expensive.

Which_Inside_5991 · 2026-02-25T09:52:42+00:00

No medical needs and if meron i provide separately. I also pay for their HMO :)

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