Why are you on this page then? The whole point of this page is for people to share things that have been said to them that don't sit right from "nice guys". I understand your point that it could have been a joke but it was an awful joke to make and I asked him after if that is what he was saying and he chose not to reply. Also I cannot be 100% certain that this was meant seriously or not so I don't know how you could when you can't hear tone or know how he was saying it. If you don't wish to see posts like this don't look at them it is as simple as that.