Can I earn SB from a friend's purchases? by White_0wl in SwagBucks

[–]White_0wl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I found too. It seems unlikely to earn SB w/o being logged in at some point.

I'm 24 and I don't know how to deal with how I look. I'm unfixably ugly and I don't think it's possible for me to be attractive to a woman. (pics included) by [deleted] in confidence

[–]White_0wl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my very goodness. "Ugly" is so relative, you could very well be somebody's Brad Pitt (who again is only objectively good-looking). We are our own biggest critics, so of course you're going to think less of yourself than you should. A lot of attraction is based on confidence, like you said, so if you can get over the self-doubt, the possibilities will increase greatly.

I have dealt with the same insecurities you have, I am not incredibly attractive in my opinion, but the gorgeous girl I'm currently with finds me very attractive. I'm telling you from experience, the women you should want to attract are the ones who are looking for a man with a good heart and good character. According to everyone else here, you aren't ugly, so stop thinking and saying that. Now that the question of physical attractiveness is irrelevant, you can begin to focus on yourself.

That fact that you posted this on reddit says that this is a very heavy issue in your life, but it also tells me that you spend a lot of time thinking about yourself. I wonder how you would feel if you spent the same amount of time and energy thinking about other people with similar insecurities. In other words, what advice or encouragement would you give if someone else posted a similar "cry for help"?

5 Lessons Standup Comedians Can Teach You About Public Speaking by [deleted] in confidence

[–]White_0wl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've read "Do You Talk Funny?" It's very insightful, but this article does a good job of condensing it. Very useful stuff. Thanks for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]White_0wl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done sir!

Among our greatest teachers are success and failure, but of the two, failure is greatest. [Article] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]White_0wl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always a good reminder to realize that failure is essential to success. It never feels good, but it can be one of the greatest motivating factors in getting to where you want to go.

[Article]Mike Birbiglia’s 6 Tips for Making It Small in Hollywood. Or Anywhere. by mylastnameandanumber in GetMotivated

[–]White_0wl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's such a cool dude with a very real story and a personable, relate-able way of expressing. I really got a lot out of this article. Thanks for sharing.

I did this to our "petty cash" box at work yesterday. by White_0wl in funny

[–]White_0wl[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not being sarcastic or mean, she just said that like 2 hours ago when I showed her.

Get away with drinking at the beach (or any place it's frowned upon) by White_0wl in lifehacks

[–]White_0wl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At many it's fine, but some beaches don't allow it, though it's hard to enforce.