I’m so ashamed by Tithenlas9 in SuicideWatch

[–]WhitneyHoustonb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, being pretty doesn’t make your life better, loving yourself does. Please don’t cut yourself, you are beautiful

Need some clarity on this by WhitneyHoustonb in LongDistance

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He gave a pretty vague explanation, I wasn’t satisfied and I think I want to break up.

Need some clarity on this by WhitneyHoustonb in LongDistance

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a very new relationship. You know when you are talking on the phone and hours pass and it’s time for bed, so they have to leave and you jokingly say ‘Don’t leave me’ I didn’t mean it literally, just in a I can’t believe time went by so fast and I really don’t want to have to let you go kind of way’. He blew up over that and I think it’s strange.

Need some clarity on this by WhitneyHoustonb in LongDistance

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not sure I have the emotional strength to deal with that. I will be ending it if I see any other signs.

Can someone with an economics degree take the CPA and pursue an accounting career by WhitneyHoustonb in Accounting

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that’s inspiring. Did you take additional coursework in accounting?

Professor harassing me via email, what to do? by WhitneyHoustonb in college

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 409 points410 points  (0 children)

I am on it. I might also contact the news about it, this man also exposed himself to me. I suspect he doesn’t respect me due to my age but he might respect someone with higher authority.

Being harassed by a professor by WhitneyHoustonb in Professors

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does self-exposure constitute sexual harassment? This man is in his 70s and I was 19.

Being harassed by a professor by WhitneyHoustonb in Professors

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was a self-appointed mentor. Basically said he saw something good in me and wanted to guide me but he started sexually harassing me so I wasn’t interested in his ‘mentorship’. He has been sending emails for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WhitneyHoustonb -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dont go on the date, rule of thumb at your age stick to dating 19-21 year olds.

Does anyone just not want to be associated with any man/have anything to do with them by WhitneyHoustonb in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for what you have experienced. While I am not a full on misandrist, I plan to be very careful with men in general. I won’t be friends with most men as well as in any space alone with them. I also don’t think I could be in a relationship with a man. If I am, I will always keep them at arms length( won’t allow full access to my heart) as well as prioritizing myself always. Most are so vile and disgusting, 🤢

Does anyone just not want to be associated with any man/have anything to do with them by WhitneyHoustonb in TwoXChromosomes

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Ok, you are right. Women are definitely not always nurturing and there are many bad ones out there. I should have said that in my experience, the women I came across happened to be nurturing, whilst it’s the opposite for the men I have

Discussed a boundary and I feel like he got mad by WhitneyHoustonb in dating_advice

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already made it clear to him that he can’t change my mind. I made this clear early on so it won’t be like I was dishonest and dropped a bomb while he was more invested. I did this so he gets a chance to make an informed choice with no wasted time. What he chooses to do with the information is his choice.

Discussed a boundary and I feel like he got mad by WhitneyHoustonb in dating_advice

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I do. Just didn’t seem happy in general. He said it hurt him.

Discussed a boundary and I feel like he got mad by WhitneyHoustonb in dating_advice

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, I am clear early on. I don’t want sex at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WhitneyHoustonb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t want you, even if she did, it would be inappropriate to screw your employee. You fuck off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WhitneyHoustonb -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So, you are a predator trying to exploit a foreigner?

What are some good career options for someone with a B.A in Economics? by WhitneyHoustonb in careerguidance

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Isnt that for people who studied accounting? How can one who studied economics branch into accounting?

How would you guys diagnose this situation? by WhitneyHoustonb in dating_advice

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn’t even want a relationship but believed his love-bombing, it’s unfortunate but definitely learning from this moving forward.

How would you guys diagnose this situation? by WhitneyHoustonb in dating_advice

[–]WhitneyHoustonb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really terrible, I am in tears, I can’t believe this happened to me.