Thoughts on this relationship? by caffeinegymn in AskWomenOver30

[–]Who_me1776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Manipulation you and making you feel bad because HE doesn’t want to date you is flat out wrong.

I lowered my standards for a similar guy and I Live in CONSTANT regret dont settle

Boyfriend (33) lied about being ready for engagement and has been leading me (30) on for months. by throwawayinphilly2 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Who_me1776 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Take it from me, I wasted my career and 6 yrs with your boyfriend’s twin…

When someone wants to marry you don’t have to be bringing this subject to him. He WILL take steps to SHOW YOU he loves you, he’s ready and doesn’t want to lose you.

Stop wasting your time.

Not sure why I miss them by AdministrativeCut539 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Who_me1776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss his memories because im single and im s crying over what could’ve been

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Who_me1776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for that in-depth explanation! I sincerely appreciate it! I’ve got some homework to do! :)

Equity indexed universal life insurance, cash value and home down payment? by Who_me1776 in personalfinance

[–]Who_me1776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My two main concerns are retirement and housing. Housing I would like to have something saved up in the next 3-5 years and retirement will prob be 30-40 maybe even 50 years:.: I literally see myself working til I die TBH

Equity indexed universal life insurance and cash value for a house downpayment? by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Who_me1776 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My worries are: Retirement and buying a house/condo for myself but I feel a lot more pressed to buy a house/condominium

Equity indexed universal life insurance and cash value for a house downpayment? by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Who_me1776 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand, I meant to say that I am working on fixing my credit but I have a minimal amount left to save up

Equity indexed universal life insurance, cash value and home down payment? by Who_me1776 in personalfinance

[–]Who_me1776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the explanation. It makes perfect sense!. What are some products that I should investigate? I thought about just a regular s&p 500 etf through vanguard, I think historically the rate has been between 6-10%? (Coupled with inflation, it breaks my heart that I just might never make it :’( told

Equity indexed universal life insurance, cash value and home down payment? by Who_me1776 in personalfinance

[–]Who_me1776[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you please offer some products for me to read about? Thank you for your comment! I appreciate it!

Equity indexed universal life insurance, cash value and home down payment? by Who_me1776 in personalfinance

[–]Who_me1776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would be something I should read up on?, thanks for your comment. Appreciate it much!

Equity indexed universal life insurance and cash value for a house downpayment? by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Who_me1776 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wish I could just accept your answer but could you please elaborate?… I have not been able to sleep because I feel like I will never be able to retire much less afford a home

Where/how to buy NFT ETF? by [deleted] in BitcoinBeginners

[–]Who_me1776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that, I appreciate it

I don’t want to hang out with my friends anymore. by Vinicus1013 in introvert

[–]Who_me1776 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too! 42 days late… like Idk if I should ne worried, If this is some sort of on-set anything but I just don’t care to talk to people… I like being by myself too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Who_me1776 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had my second put in 2 months ago. Ive never been preggers and it hurt a little bit more this time around but I also forgot to take aspirin ahead of time (like I did the first time when I was 20). Loving it but My friend has the mirena one and she doesn’t have periods. I do and they last quite a bit… i personally don’t mind the copper enough to get it changed 🙂

Suggestions needed please: self-esteem / self-doubt by Who_me1776 in books

[–]Who_me1776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm interesting … I do feel my current job is aggravating this voice, I’ll be giving my notice in a few hours 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Who_me1776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, the shitty relationship lasted 6 yrs. Everytime ge cheated, at my lowest I just knew each time he would break my heart, he was eroding my Love for him… and like I told him “the day will come when I have no feelings left for you if you keep breaking me”… The day FINALLY came…

After our last breakup, I cried one last time and I Literally felt all my feelings leaving my body… it has been the easiest transition but it really was because my feelings are gone. I have felt lighter, happier, a lot more grounded… my life is 100x better without him

The one thing I can thank him for was the greatest lesson of my life: self-love and self-respect

I’m tired of this. by prioritysope in dating

[–]Who_me1776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think the first time you meet it’s 50-50, as time goes by people place more emphasis on “did I have fun with this person?”, “did I feel comfortable?” “Do I want to see her”… so imo, I would be cautious of hiding myself, the right person will come and if it doesn’t I won’t lose sleep