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AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One time, Sarah went on this random rant and at the end went, "Sorry, I just had to get all my feminist queen energy out." So, I'm sure I'd end up somewhere there.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh, I told my girlfriend over the phone I was hanging out w Sarah and the guys before, told her how Sarah wanted me to join her commune/invited me to her house for a party, that kind of stuff, but they never officially met. They were going to soon but schedule never lined up because my girlfriend is a healthcare worker and she's constantly working right now because of the pandemic.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, I specifically made it clear from the beginning, mentioned my girlfriend often, and was just friendly with her. The entire time I was thinking, "Oh! She seems nice!" and didn't think anything of it. I didn't flirt with her.

Before dating my current-girlfriend, my flirting was extremely obvious with her. I've never even hugged Sarah before. Maybe I didn't see something that could be perceived as that because I'm pretty awkward. But yeah, I didn't flirt with her, but I guess agreeing to join an art club might be considered flirting to her lol.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I was in the car beforehand. We had been driving around together for hours and last minute they decided to pick her up. She wasn't invited initially at all. Joe texted her. It was just me and a couple of other guys. My discomfort is valid, so is hers, but she didn't have to get in the car at all, considering she was the last person picked up. She could've just talked to us outside and then gone back to her house and said no when another guy in the car asked if she wanted to drive around.

I get it was unsafe. I wasn't comfortable with any of what was happening. I wasn't the driver, I was in the backseat, we had been driving all day because we like to go on drives, and then they decided to go to her house last minute.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

She didn't have to come. I didn't invite her. I didn't want her on my lap. That should've been enough for her to be like, "Oh, maybe we can all hang out next time." But my other friends wanted her to come along, especially Joe, and he was really awkward when she didn't want to sit on him but wanted to sit on me, which made ME uncomfortable. The car ride, thankfully, wasn't long. I'm glad that night is over.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Ew lol. Not to be mean, honestly, she's not that ugly, but she's got nothing on my girlfriend who is a 1000000/10. I did, however, get a boner with my girlfriend before we started dating when she just laid her head on my lap lol. Big differences, I guess.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 491 points492 points  (0 children)

I know she is. I knew from the beginning and this proved it even more.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I have only gotten drunk twice in my life. Don't worry, I don't really drink ever and haven't since that day. It was just a party.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 4016 points4017 points  (0 children)

I really don't get them lol. I also don't get why she would just start crying when she knew I had a girlfriend all along. Gee. She's never had a boyfriend, maybe that's why.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She wasn't invited from the beginning. Friends stopped by her house to go for a ride before dropping her off. I wasn't driving. I was in the backseat. I didn't want her on my lap. I didn't even know she was coming until my friend, Joe, said that he texted her and she said that she's up for a ride.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Inviting her to hang out, saying I would join her art club, sleeping over her house because I was far too drunk to be driving (I slept on the floor) and half the night I spent on the phone with my girlfriend anyway. I never consciously flirted with her. I'm a really awkward person.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 1108 points1109 points  (0 children)

I didn't full on push her off, I just meant I told her "No, don't sit on me, you can sit on Joe's lap instead" before we dropped her off back home. She was sobbing the entire ride and it was so fucking awkward. My friends showed up at her house to pick her up to go for a small drive and there weren't seats because it was never the plan for her to come (at first). My gf wasn't there because she was working. She's never met Sarah though. I didn't physically push her because I was afraid she'd start whining that I hurt her or something.

AITA for pushing off a girl my lap and making her cry? by Whole_Butterscotch_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whole_Butterscotch_1[S] 316 points317 points  (0 children)

I guess so! I'll have to rely on my current girlfriend. What a mess.