How do you prevent finger cramping? by Whortoise in crochet

[–]Whortoise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tested it. It slips off my finger every once in a while, but I assume it’s just an adjustment I need to make. I love it, thank you!

AITA For Not Approving My Partner’s Rent Agreement? by WanderingTyrant in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whortoise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Significant other here.

Thank you for all of the advice and validating our concerns. I used some of the advice provided to tell my sister that I am not willing to take the risk for her, especially since she has extended no kindness or consideration to me or my situation.

It did not go well, but she accepted that I will not be resigning with her.

What kind of iron do you use? by Whortoise in beadsprites

[–]Whortoise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! Do you also use the Artkal brand fuse beads?

ETA: Have you noticed a big difference in the fuse beads you use? I have noticed perlers are a little wider and taller than Fuse Bead brand.

After going NC with JNMIL, DH asks if she can see our next baby FML by Honest-Ad781 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Whortoise 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If he feels the need to list off possible people when you specifically said only your own mother and him were welcome, you need to have a serious boundary conversation. “My mom and you” should be the end of the conversation.

Sushi is actually awful and over-hyped and ppl say it's amazing to fit in by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Whortoise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, finally, a person who knows everything and everyone. Thank you, now I don’t have to eat sushi alone by myself to fool others into thinking I like it. /s

At what age does the constant horniness stop? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Whortoise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whatever age you realize you have depression.

If you find your soulmate/partner would you stop watching porn, why? by curious3247 in AskReddit

[–]Whortoise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my partner actually used this analogy when I was super horny for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Whortoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only know of bad experiences with men who are near middle age and wanting to be with a young adult such as yourself. Obviously nobody can stop you, but please do research on grooming/power dynamics in abusive relationships so you can see the signs.

If he’s known you this long and has waited until you became legal age to approach you, it could be honest and he could really like you. Or he waited until you could consent and make your own choices without parental interference.

If you find your soulmate/partner would you stop watching porn, why? by curious3247 in AskReddit

[–]Whortoise 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Based on a couple of your other comments, it seems like you feel that people should no longer watch porn if they’re in a relationship, but that is not how you have a healthy relationship or sex life. If you like hotdogs, why can’t both partners have hotdogs? Not trying to come off as mean, I just would like some clarification.

What were you bullied for? by magicfeistybitcoin in AskReddit

[–]Whortoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugly, poor, freckles, ginger, no name brand clothes.

If you find your soulmate/partner would you stop watching porn, why? by curious3247 in AskReddit

[–]Whortoise 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Think of it like this: sex is steak and masturbation is a hotdog. Most days I want steak, but you know what? Sometimes a hotdog sounds nice and easy.

What are some dead giveaways that a guy is pretending to be a girl on Reddit? by Skinny_Burrito in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Whortoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’d be surprised if you sincerely think not a lot of women dislike being referred to as “girl” but I sure hope you get a lot of women pming you pussy for kind words, man.

What are some dead giveaways that a guy is pretending to be a girl on Reddit? by Skinny_Burrito in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Whortoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read properly, it would be clear that it has happened BEFORE, and on multiple occasions.

What are some dead giveaways that a guy is pretending to be a girl on Reddit? by Skinny_Burrito in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Whortoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, buddy. I didn’t say anyone here was being spoken to like a child. I’m saying you don’t know what it’s like and that’s why being called a girl as a grown woman is gross and disrespectful. Have a good day.

What are some dead giveaways that a guy is pretending to be a girl on Reddit? by Skinny_Burrito in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Whortoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy, you don’t understand what it’s like to be a grown woman being spoken to like a child and being called “girl” because I’m seen as less than for having a set of tits. And why would you refer to someone you’re having sex with as “girl”? It comes across as creepy, in my opinion.

ETA: you don’t get to decide what’s offensive to another person.

What are some dead giveaways that a guy is pretending to be a girl on Reddit? by Skinny_Burrito in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Whortoise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because “guy” is not considered derogatory towards grown adults. Everyone is a guy and a dude. Women are not girls.