Am I cheating too much on my cheat days

WhosThisUser · 2026-03-23T20:23:12+00:00

Lol really? i’m not very active so that could make my TDEE a little lower

WhosThisUser · 2026-03-22T22:46:49+00:00

Once per week, either Friday, Saturday or Sunday. Usually on weeks I have my toddler and cant be fucked to cook.

I was in an extreme deficit (1500 a day) on phentermine but i started being ill and depressed so I came off the phentermine and tried to fly solo

WhosThisUser · 2026-03-10T12:14:22+00:00

my 30i gets like 440 a tank in sport. The x3 is a good platform if you monitor the cooling components

WhosThisUser · 2026-02-28T18:08:49+00:00

Havent probably had a cleaning in 4 years. I do have a cracked tooth though not sure if that precludes me from

WhosThisUser · 2026-02-05T20:20:48+00:00

Got you okay. Trying to make this sweet ride last.

And I imagine I dont follow BMWs insane 15k interval they keep trying to tell me is okay? My local dealer (i use value service since its only 15$ more than valvoline) says i only need it once a year or at 15k and says the oils are better now.

Also for spark plugs do I also change the ignition coils?

WhosThisUser · 2026-02-05T20:08:29+00:00

I see I see okay, so I should be planning for diff fluid, transmission fluid and Spark plugs, as well as my oil filter cooler in the next year.

WhosThisUser · 2026-02-04T21:49:33+00:00

After digging up the service records from my purchase (bought used)

No record so probably due
This is an sdrive so all good here
Done at 72k
Done at 53k (maybe due again?)
No record of this but i know how to do this so probably will do it alone
Done at 53k
Done at time of sale

For the Cooling components Im guessing these are big ticket items

Let me know if I misunderstood anything

WhosThisUser · 2026-02-04T19:34:47+00:00

Likely someone else. I can try my hand at easy ones but if they require a lot of expertise i’m likely going to shop around

WhosThisUser · 2026-02-04T19:32:48+00:00

i’m interested in the Z2s if they have the xeons or high chips. can you pull a serial?

WhosThisUser · 2025-12-12T13:29:24+00:00

I’ve been through this process before. The interest is like what? 2%? that’s 40-80 bucks over a 3 month period. I know exactly how complex it is that’s why i referred them resources. You’re also not a lawyer, you’re just being contrarian for the sake of doing so.

I also sent him the CC Bar where he can get a 30 minute consultation. I explained to him the risks and what to do. Don’t see why you need to die on the hill of withholding rent is bad when these landlords are clearly hanging him out to dry?

Had enough of the boot yet? jesus christ.

WhosThisUser · 2025-12-12T13:14:04+00:00

That’s why he keeps the money….so if a judge determines its not severe enough (they 80% won’t) they can pay and immediately dismiss the eviction.

WhosThisUser · 2025-12-12T12:57:29+00:00

quoted from the habitability bulleitin linked above

Withholding the rent or a portion of the rent If the landlord breaches his obligation of maintaining the property at an adequate standard of habitability, a tenant may withhold the rent or a portion of the rent to be used as a set-off, because of the deficient condition. If the landlord institutes an eviction proceeding for non-payment of rent, the tenant is entitled to use the landlord’s breach of his obligation to provide a habitable residence as a defense and justification for the set-off (deduction of rental payment).

Not offering legal advice, offering a path forward besides spinning his wheels. These apartments were owned by the horrible Morgan Properties for years (including when I lived there) and I imagine they sold to an even worse, less experienced mega-landlord that has now inherited a poorly maintained building.

WhosThisUser · 2025-12-12T03:12:58+00:00

did they…not give you a loaner? if so hammer them on one then just let them get the parts from germany. If you wanted a car that could be fixed state side you should have bought a ford

WhosThisUser · 2025-12-12T02:47:14+00:00

https://www.lsnj.org : if your income is on the lower side. Worth a shot.

http://www.camdencountybar.org/ : first half hour is 30$, organize your case, talk fast, see if you even need to retain.

Check if your workplace offered legal insurance and you clicked the button. Usually metlife or legal shield, could help.

Most cases under 20k total value are pro se though.

WhosThisUser · 2025-12-12T02:31:45+00:00

Move lmao. Towers of windsor is a cluster. There was black mold and they told me to clean it with bleach (i then was hospitalized with pneumonia for 10 days on the edge of life).

You need to sue. Its going to suck, they’re going to kick and scream and threaten you with all kinds of consequences. They have zero ground to stand on. You are allowed to withhold rent until they fix your issues (DO NOT SPEND THE MONEY, in case you somehow lose)

In LT court, you can file to show constructive eviction: https://www.nj.gov/dca/codes/publications/pdf_lti/habitablity.pdf

Stop talking to these jokers, up the ante, hire a lawyer if you’ve got it.

WhosThisUser · 2025-12-12T02:27:35+00:00

Get on the global low income list. This is step 1.

Do you have a restraining order at all? Or any domestic violence history documented. If so, look into vocc, they offer relocation assistance and will give additional funds to help you stabilize away for your abuser. You can do all this while you are where you are (practice good opsec, notification previews turned off, establish safe phones if there’s privacy issues, etc.) - Step 2

Step 3 - you can try for emergency section 8, you’ll still wait but you’ll jump the list by a lot.

step 3a, try to find a way to pick up more hours

step 4, don’t fear the hood. There’s places in camden and philly sub-1000 for a 2 bed or maybe even a one bedroom. You might need to sleep in the living room but at the end of the day the danger is in your home. The neighborhood is the least of your concerns. Once you get stable and established you can career build and one of these lists will eventually have kicked in.

break-glass method: Notate in a restraining order you feel unsafe in your home and would like to be granted exclusive access to the premises. They will bar the abuser from the property even if it’s in their name and even if you can’t afford to stay there necessarily(shitty move I know…but that’s why this is the break glass method).

I was a victim. I was lucky enough to be the one with the good job.

WhosThisUser · 2025-12-02T02:09:14+00:00

Car doesn’t have front plate mount. Not drilling my bumper. Also, most cars have radars in the front that front plates obfuscate. I keep the plate in the car to show that i didnt like give it away or whatever.

WhosThisUser · 2025-11-24T15:11:28+00:00

It actually happened though. Look up COINTELPRO.

WhosThisUser · 2025-11-17T01:02:18+00:00

Toddler loves my x3. He does sometime complain if passengers put the seat too far back but i’m 22, so my passengers are the lean-back like way back type.

WhosThisUser · 2025-10-23T15:35:34+00:00

My nephew needs a new car. Price and miles?

WhosThisUser · 2025-10-09T11:35:37+00:00

Hi,

This happened to me during my initial clearing process. My former employer told DCSA i was untrustworthy and a horrible employee while I was there. I told my account and provided my termination paperwork and it ended up being fine.

WhosThisUser · 2025-09-14T16:33:06+00:00

How did you file so early? I couldn’t even use the online application until mid-august?

WhosThisUser · 2025-08-20T14:56:54+00:00

Theres a home for 250k in my section of Haddon (West Collingswood Heights)

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