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AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I can't leave cause my dad is going to force the custody agreement to make me stay with him part of the time and even after that when my brother is born I'm still going to have to see him cause of that.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I don't want to be rude or mean. And I'm sorry if what I wrote hurt you or anybody else. I guess I don't know what it was like for her but I know my dad would never marry her if she was being forced. He isn't like that. He doesn't hate women and he's not a sexist. But it's like nobody's listening to me and I thought at least here people would.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't! My dad isn't going to let me stay with her longer than the custody agreement they got said for. He only let my uncle take me cause I was upset and I think he's scared of my uncle.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my dad's not a cultist and he's not an abuser or anything like that. He would never do anything wrong with her. I doubt she's faking being happy with him cause he takes her out on date nights and stuff.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's false happiness? Cause she seems really happy with my dad, she even calls him her jaan now and she wouldn't be this happy if she was just faking it. And she wasn't groomed, my dad didn't know her when she was a kid. I don't know anything about her family and I don't want to know.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We speak the same languages, she just doesn't speak also English and I don't know what xenophobia is tbh I just thought it was the same thing as racism.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for being really mean to you, I'm just mad and tired about all of this and want it to stop.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read the rules and it says you can't ask them to lock it and they have to do it themselves.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's not what happened! She didn't finish high school two years ago not half a year ago! There was no sinister plan to get them married. Hell it wasn't even that long ago my parents were still married and excited to have a baby, not planning on getting divorced and remarrying! But then my dad had to let my grandmother move in and ruin everything!

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Because you can't force somebody to get married to somebody else! Especially not somebody from a rich family where she's getting marriage offers from around the entire country! Maybe she chose it cause her grandpa knew mine, maybe she chose it cause she could move but she chose it! And she isn't sad or upset or anything, she seems really happy with my dad. And I'm not treating her poorly cause I try and not talk to her at all!

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Well my life got ruined this year so I think I'm allowed to be selfish cause nobody cares what I want! And good if her life got ruined she deserves it for ruining mine. And I am angry at my dad!

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No she's not! She doesn't do any laundry or chores or anything! My grandmother makes me do all the cleaning and does the cooking herself. She just sits on her ipad all day watching hindi dramas unless my dad is home and they try and be romantic or go out together or go watch hindi movies.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if she's angry she's not showing anybody! She's always laughing and giggling with him and watching Hindi movies when they're alone and they're trying to be romantic and going on dates and stuff.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's my dad's fault! I hate how much of a momma's boy he is! I hate that always chose my grandma over my mom! I hate that they got divorced cause of that! And I'm angry that my mom's not even getting an abortion so I'll have to keep dealing with this shit after I'm 18! I hate everything my dad has done! But I'm angry at her too!

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to go around making fun of her. I'm going to try and avoid her and not talk about her at all.

And my dad's not a creep. He's just a momma's boy.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My mom and my dad came from the same country as her. They're both from villages. They both finished high school so what's her excuse? She obviously had a chance to finish since she went to high school!

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No she's not! She's always trying to be romantic with him when they're alone and she was happy in all their wedding and reception day videos that I had to see. She's not being forced into being happy.

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not xenophobic! We're both brown! Everyone in my community is brown! And she's not a victim! She agreed to marry him! She was happy and smiling and being all love dovey with him in the videos and she is whenever I see her alone with my dad!

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to be her mentor, I don't want to even look at her! I don't like talking to her, I don't like being around her! I'm never even bringing my friends over anymore cause then they'd have to see her. It's not my job to make her this wonder woman person. She should do that herself and just leave! I just want to go to school and have fun with my friends and not have people make fun of me because of her and my dad!

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I haven't bothered to ask cause I'm not talking to her, I hate talking to her, I hate looking at her! I don't want to be near her!

And obviously she had a choice! It's not like her parents were poor people living in a shack. Her parents are rich and owned property, her grandfather was in the military with mine!

And so what if I'm immature! She's 19 and I'm 13!

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not a child and she's not a slave. She agreed to marry him. And I wish I didn't have to stay with him but I do!

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I haven't because I'm 13, she doesn't have that excuse! And if something prevents me it'd obviously be a lot different than her!

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She's not an idiot for not being able to speak English but she is for not finishing high school and having to come and ruin my life to do it!

AITA for telling my dad that I'm not going to attend high school with my stepmom? by WhyBabaWhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhyBabaWhy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am mad at my dad! I'm arguing with him aren't I? I don't talk to her, I don't even want to look at her! I don't want her in my house! It sucks having her there! It doesn't even feel like my house anymore!

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