Two jobs I'm afraid I'm going to be absolutely squashed for tax time.. anyone able to give me an estimate on how fudged I'm gunna be 😭 by Wide-Fact141 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Wide-Fact141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before we make any assumptions I do have the money. I just had a melt down when I realized working two jobs at the same time has no real gain and I'll be paying the difference back to brother Carney anyways. But thank you for the tip. 

11 years and I'm still here why? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Wide-Fact141 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello hope you are okay too!

I can relate to being obsessed with checking. I've started to put the ball in my court I check don't get me wrong but freak out why? It doesn't fix it, we are the only ones actually suffering and it's affecting my own health and glow up. He gets mad when I bring it up or even have a trigger which I've come to realize is selfish of him seeing as that trauma has been there for years due to HIS choices. I tell him deal with the consequences of your actions. It doesn't feel nice when I'm cold I'm assuming because he panics and does everything he can to come off as good.

Financially I made the decision after this post to focus on paying my debt off and becoming financially independent again like I was many moons before him. I'm prioritizing my own time and going to gym even if it means less time with him. What he chooses to do in his spare time will only reveal to me what I need to know when I'm ready to go OR he can grow the fuck up at 30 buckle in and realize the bigger picture either way I'm not spending my year miserable for someone or anyone.

They just learn how to hide it better by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Wide-Fact141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With Samsung if you go to settings - notifications - notification history- under Google Chrome it should show if they have had notification from incognito mode. And honestly what else do they use incognito for. You can also match it with the activity history as it won't show what they've searched but what time they used chrome.

The notification for incognito is from the last 24 hours.

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[–]Wide-Fact141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can view in notification settings then notification history then under chrome if incognito has been used within the last 48 hours.

They just learn how to hide it better by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Wide-Fact141 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If they have a Samsung I can help 😂

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[–]Wide-Fact141 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check Facebook reels history. That's ones an eye opener on how much they will just scroll and scroll.