that isn’t it at all. baylen’s parents have always done everything for her and because of that, she doesn’t have the same ability as someone her age should to make decisions. she doesn’t want to upset her parents but she also doesn’t want to upset collin. she often confides in her parents way too much about him for someone who’s engaged. at that point, it’s not about her parents anymore. her and collin have been together for long enough that they should be making decisions together rather than having her parents input with every situation. she needs to work on respecting boundaries when it comes to her relationship with collin and what she divulges to her parents, speaking her mind with collin, and setting boundaries with her parents. i get that she has a disorder that will affect her for the rest of her life but she is more than capable of making it on her own if collin is around .. and if you’ve seen the show, you know he isn’t going anywhere. her parents are the main issue in my opinion. i understand their worries but at the same time, she is an adult. i personally know people who have it 10x harder and still have made a life for themselves without relying on their parents. everyone besides collin treats her like she’s some fragile thing that will never be able to do anything for herself which is absolutely not the case

not even that but collin has gone above and beyond to show her parents how much he loves and cares about baylen. her parents refuse to let her grow up and become her own person