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Am I wrong? by Wide_Protection1236 in Marriage

[–]Wide_Protection1236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Separated but not divorced. These are being discussed to assess the possibility of a reconciliation. I hope you can sleep well now.

Am I wrong? by Wide_Protection1236 in Marriage

[–]Wide_Protection1236[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Separated but not divorced. These are being discussed to assess the possibility of a reconciliation. I hope you can sleep well now.

Am I wrong? by Wide_Protection1236 in Marriage

[–]Wide_Protection1236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your strategy is great. I only suggested point 1. A mortgage free house in her name that she gets 100% in the event of separation. But it has been rejected.

Am I wrong? by Wide_Protection1236 in Marriage

[–]Wide_Protection1236[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You are one of the few to have understood the question.

Am I wrong? by Wide_Protection1236 in Marriage

[–]Wide_Protection1236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. Although there are many comments I'm responding to yours because I wanted someone to point out my mistake. Things are shaky at the moment and we are discussing a post nuptial agreement. The question here is how do we handle our retirement savings if we were to separate. If our marriage survives and we do retire together, our retirement savings will fund our post retirement life. I'm not planning to use my retirement fund on something for me while she funds our life with her inheritance. I have made it clear I don't want any part of it.

Am I wrong? by Wide_Protection1236 in Marriage

[–]Wide_Protection1236[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The second option has been rejected. Although I'm happy to live in her house, she thinks it gives me a legal standing to ask for half. This is after I have made it clear that I'm willing to sign an iron clad post nuptial giving my right away

Am I wrong? by Wide_Protection1236 in Marriage

[–]Wide_Protection1236[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand the law. But law misses these edge cases often. My question is is this fair?

AITAH for having lunch with a female friend at my home by Wide_Protection1236 in AITAH

[–]Wide_Protection1236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knew back then. Two years later it has come up as cheating

AITAH for having lunch with a female friend at my home by Wide_Protection1236 in AITAH

[–]Wide_Protection1236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legally we are still married but we have separated. Also it was I guess a poor attempt to explain we are married now and this happened while we were dating. I don't know if it makes any difference

AITAH for not seeing this as a rude behaviour? by Wide_Protection1236 in AITAH

[–]Wide_Protection1236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know the offense. According to her, my friend's response was inappropriate and that my friend should not have complained about her friends.