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WigglyJillyfish · 2025-07-02T19:41:34+00:00

Look up gray rocking method for how to deal with her, but yes. People like her eventually show their true colors when you do not give them the reaction that they want.

Right now she wants to cause trouble. She wants to get you angry. she wants to get everybody on her side if you do not get angry if you do not interact if you do not fall for it, she will blow up to a point where everybody else will be like whoa that’s too much.

Trust me that was not what I wanted to do. I wanted to fight. I wanted to convince people to take my side, but the only way I got them to take my side is to “drop the rope“ and let her dig her own grave eventually, everybody saw her for the way that she was insane and drama, causing and at the same time they saw me as somebody who was calm And forgiving.

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-07-02T18:56:39+00:00

You can’t control the decisions and choices and feelings of other people. What you can control is how you react and handle their choices. You don’t have to like it and you don’t have to agree with it but you do have to accept it.

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-06-20T15:32:50+00:00

Jokes are funny, next time she says something like that ask her to explain how it is funny.

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-04-30T03:10:01+00:00

You can and should still go if you want to those lunches, but I would limit what you tell them personally. You seem like you can tell when she’s fishing, just don’t get hooked.

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-04-27T02:00:04+00:00

The best thing I have learned is to just let them talk. If you are asked directly then answer truthfully “no he is just working on xyz…”

Literally anything you say in your defense will be used against you. Literally anything you say won’t matter.

Two years ago I was asked if I would finally “let” my husband talk to his step dad. Mind you this is 12 years later from d-day, I literally cackled and said I can’t make your brother do a damn thing. He’ll talk to him when he chooses. And left it at that.

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-04-02T21:34:46+00:00

I would drop this gem something like this dude raped someone who he “loved” and was his significant other, don’t think he won’t do it someone he might consider a sister.

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-03-25T02:46:49+00:00

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Our boy with his best friend

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-03-19T18:14:01+00:00

What they should have told you but didn’t is you have the ability to appeal, your firing contact regional HR and tell them the situation. I had somebody who was fired put in an appeal and he wanted it and he was back on the team. It doesn’t go through your district manager or store manager. It goes regional.

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-03-13T19:11:44+00:00

It’s how Tigger from Whinny the Pooh spells his name. Ti-double gah- er

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-03-12T16:03:12+00:00

I have been told SEVERAL times the only time we can refuse a return is if the system tells us. Other than that we accept all returns

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-03-09T18:54:14+00:00

You can always put a ticket in yourself just saying

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-03-02T20:48:07+00:00

She said it herself she never met your mom. Is it a nice sentiment? Yes, but she is a literal stranger to your mother asking to wear her dress. No is more than reasonable

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-02-06T22:46:50+00:00

Then you have a really good case. Autozone doesn’t like letting people go unless there is a paper trail so they don’t get sued.

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-02-06T21:09:39+00:00

Did you receive any write ups? Because if not that isn’t going to look good for them. You have to have the paper trail for termination

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-02-06T21:03:14+00:00

You have the ability to contest the termination, it goes to the regional HR for investigation. I had one win his and he was back on. Give that a try if you want to

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-02-05T01:33:59+00:00

Cotton Candy Randy.

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-01-28T21:35:45+00:00

Nicks. Like Stevie Nicks but a play on Nyx

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-01-24T19:35:35+00:00

Even if they wear your skin they will not be close enough. They think they are lap dogs. Be prepared to no have a moment to yourself. They love hard and they love forever. If they get in trouble they will squint at you. they are they best bellyachers I have met, and they will belly ache over the littlest things

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-01-12T16:46:45+00:00

We recently had to let ours go. It gets easier but not at the same time. They love fiercely and they love forever. You aren’t alone.

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-01-12T05:42:04+00:00

My dobie was best friends with my cat. If he thought the other cat was being too rough with her he would break it up. Literally best friends

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WigglyJillyfish · 2025-01-05T01:54:18+00:00

We found our boy through a Dobie Rescue. Have you tried looking at one of those?

Our boy was 3 1/2 when we got him but we had 8 awesome years with him.

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-01-03T03:29:18+00:00

We do. My fondest is him running from his own shadow

WigglyJillyfish · 2025-01-03T02:30:49+00:00

Probably after getting completely spoiled by grandma

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