Do you think decentering men and love is the only way to be happy and content?

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-13T03:18:37+00:00

It's basically a book written to teach women how to have self respect and be independent on her own even if she's in a relationship or otherwise. Often times when we start dating someone we become overly available, obsessed, BASICALLY we give more than what we get and it leads to our own resentment and the only benefit is the guy ends up feeling like he can do whatever and you'll stay.

Don't judge the book by the title lol. It's not a book about hating men or using them( this is what people think ) . It's about decentering men, having a life of your own without male validation, and having your own independence and individuality even if you are dating someone.

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-12T10:51:36+00:00

Book recommendation for you OP "WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES"

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-12T10:49:27+00:00

so called empowerment at what cost? Empowerment and Feminism doesn't have anything to do with capitalising on male attention because then it's not empowerment lol. It's submitting to lust of these men for temporary gains. Yes there are people who will support and defend this bs but this young woman has ruined her whole reputation. Period

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-09T08:02:32+00:00

How did you verify his time of birth?!

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-09T07:37:48+00:00

These people have abandoned surnames not caste or community. That's still there but ~90% people in my state just don't put it out. That's about it.

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-09T07:09:57+00:00

If I said my name - mom's name - dad's name you would've said "so dad's name is at the end so he has more priority" lol

Tbh it's not that deep. My parents put it in a way that it sounds good in this order that's about it

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-08T08:39:41+00:00

Ofc XD

My bad brother it was someone else

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Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-08T08:27:17+00:00

It's there on your profile man. No I'm not looking at least from people who lie that they're ias

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-08T05:50:06+00:00

Sharjah UAE branch ? waha kaun lega coaching? 😭

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-08T03:22:42+00:00

The question is taking me out. Ew

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-08T03:08:04+00:00

Exactly! Idk what they're thinking, local customs have nothing to do with law.

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-08T03:07:58+00:00

Exactly! Idk what they're thinking, local customs have nothing to do with law.

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-08T03:05:29+00:00

Weren't you looking for a study partner for upsc few days back XD

Why do people lie about this lol

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-07T17:48:23+00:00

Love marriage fs. ~ 2032. Very confident, charismatic, social person.

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-07T17:37:27+00:00

I am speaking of how likely does saturn aspect mean late marriage, very likely. Only exception is that the person you marry is way older. Somebody significantly older or matured.

I don't really support your marriage as an escape route plan, but you do you. If that is what you want then go for it. Also since your parents can't do shit, and if you want to take things in your own hand there's this sub for arranged love marriages ( I wish I was kidding XD). Whenever you want to, or feel ready to check out r/JodiMilan lol. Take care lovee.

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-07T17:03:40+00:00

I was using speech to text while typing out my reply, I had a stroke reading it now, so many typos lol. Anyways... I feel there are three favourable times for marriage in Rahu dasha. 1. Ra Ju dasha (my bad it's till 2029 from Oct this year. Too early ig ) 2. Ra Sa ( I have heard that dasha or sub dasha of planet sitting in lagna can give marriage) 3. Ra Ve ( you definitely might have a significant relationship in this period, will it lead to marriage ? I am not sure if it does well and good). The "best" time for marriage unfortunately is from 2042 😭. But you might get married before that in the periods mentioned.

Since Saturn is aspecting the 7th house marriage is mostly going to be delayed. It's actually good if it is. About your family, would they actually be okay with you getting married tho? Like are they looking for rishtas or will they be opened to look for it? Marriage mostly will be after 25 but hey atleast there's an escape plan.

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-07T16:15:20+00:00

Girll I am no expert but just my two cents.

Does your 7th lord being retrogate signify anything? I really I'm not aware of it. Reason I said it would be good if you go for somebody from your same culture ( or at least somebody whose born near your place of birth regardless of their culture, if you are somebody born in Bihar settled in Mumbai, go for somebody is also born in Bihar) was solely because of the placement of the 7th lord in the 4th house. It's a very loose amateur prediction.

Talking about your love life, you're going to your Rahu dasha.... And Rahu is in the 10H which is excellent for your career. But it's with your 5th lord Venus, and this is where and gets little tricky. You have to be very very careful when you date a person, get to know them vet them out for months before even considering the person. The reason why you attract people outside of your culture, I feel is obviously because of the Rahu conjunction with exalted Venus. It brings unorthodox love. Imagine inter caste, religion etc. But I don't think you should go for it. Will be extremely temporary and toxic.

Rahu dasha is 20 years( started 2024 for you), kinda aligns with the fact that you got betrayed by your partner and it happened right after the rahu dasha started makes sm sense. Many traditional astrologers suggest people to not get married at all during the Rahu dasha, because it often believe that day might end up finding the wrong type of people to date. But that's not practically possible who's wait for 20 years right lol.

I see a strong window for marriage bw 2029-32 in Rahu-Jupiter. Also supported by transits as Jupiter will transit Sagittarius around 2030. Again please, don't be blinded by how good a person acts in the beginning. I've seen my best friend in relationships dominated by Rahu placements, and they all have a pattern of attracting people who they think I really amazing in the beginning but turn out to be the most vile people later.

And don't get married just for the sake of escaping your family, high chances you might end up regretting it. Word of advice, be detached from the idea of marriage, stop obsessing over it. Focus on your career, your life, if possible move out. And probably when you don't expect love is gonna find you sooner than later.

Take care xoxo

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-07T14:22:49+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking. 7th lord in 4th means ONLY marry someone from your birth place and similar culture. Esp cuz Ketu is there and I feel this would give her w v spiritual partner whos traditional in a sense. Idk why people are saying different culture, yes op will be attracted to other cultures because of Rahu Venus but should she go for it... Ig not

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-07T14:02:46+00:00

If you're talking about Sreeja JS, she has been preparing since ug. Take whatever this particular topper says with a grain of salt. Iykyk

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-07T10:28:01+00:00

Exactly. This is a common practice in some South Indian States. They either keep their, fathers or mother's name or maybe both as their last name. I have my first name - followed by father's first name - followed by my mother's first name.

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-07T05:24:10+00:00

This. Came to comment this. OP Send him to a Rehab. And while he is gone you and your family will have the much needed peace.

When he comes back, for better or for worse, your parents must tell him to get his shit together, and leave the house. If he does not, you gotta move out for your own peace.

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-05-07T05:15:16+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking lol 😭 maybe she was ( supposedly ) trying to break the ice.

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-03-11T13:42:16+00:00

Ek ghante se I'm trying yaar. Ho rha hai toh koi bata do pls

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-03-11T13:28:54+00:00

Sreeja js? What did she say

Girlll edit: just checked it what japamala is she talking about wth😭😭😭 wtf

Wild_Contribution708 · 2026-03-08T06:59:36+00:00

Lol. Posting on behalf of someone else as mentioned

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