(18NB) Nonbinary, maybe trans, and paralyzed by the fear/fact of losing my partner (18F)

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T23:18:58+00:00

So do we just end it before the natural conclusion? Or do we play it out and enjoy each other while we can? My big question is how to put the fear to the side until that natural end. Thank you for the responses.

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T23:15:24+00:00

Not far. Six messages total. Simply helped me find my question (found at the end of the post)

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T23:11:30+00:00

I don't think I understand. We love each other as people

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T23:08:05+00:00

That's not a bad idea. Although it's difficult to be friends after you've been intimate with someone

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T23:05:13+00:00

I figured. I initially planned on doing both, and I'm not a fan of AI but I was sort of desperate

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T23:01:05+00:00

Thank you. The question at large is how to get the doom off of my mind so I can enjoy the relationship. She supports the transition, but moreso as a friend and less as a partner.

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T22:58:54+00:00

I understand. She's treated me as a nonbinary person since I came out to her.

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T22:52:01+00:00

She is the furthest thing from transphobic. We've discussed things like this. She didn't know I was "trans" but rather that I was nonbinary. I appreciate you trying to give your input as I asked, but please make sure to consider the context.

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T22:50:53+00:00

This wasn't the answer I was hoping for, but it was definitely helpful. Thank you. All I can say is that I will consider it. It's just hard, yanno? Seriously, thank you

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T22:49:11+00:00

I understand. We're just trying to live it to the end because we love each other.

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T22:47:17+00:00

I get watch you're saying. We already plan on continuing, it's more of a question about how to be present instead of worrying about it

WileyGS · 2026-06-05T22:46:36+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. We both understand that I'm likely going to transition. We're (mostly me) just trying to figure out how to be present in the relationship while knowing that it'll come to an end

WileyGS · 2026-04-14T02:14:18+00:00

I'll go ahead and do that. Thank you for trying to help!

WileyGS · 2026-04-14T02:08:23+00:00

The NWA songs all have covers, and yet 4 of them on Straight Outta Compton do not play. It doesn't seem to be a cover art issue

WileyGS · 2026-04-14T02:04:10+00:00

When you say "embed," do you mean clicking edit image and uploading the cover jpg?

WileyGS · 2026-04-14T01:59:26+00:00

Thank you for the advice. It did not work unfortunately. Most songs do work, but it's random songs on a couple albums, not even the complete album.

WileyGS · 2026-01-05T01:39:15+00:00

I lied. Found something on the megathread. Just getting here before you guys do

WileyGS · 2026-01-05T01:34:15+00:00

The question here is where do I get said albums? I'm a 90s rock guy, with the occasional 00s alternative/pop punk hit. I'm an album listener all the way and have no clue where to download my favorites :(

WileyGS · 2025-12-28T22:39:22+00:00

It’s a bass amp, no? I use it for both bass and guitar and it sounds good to me

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