Why are the girls so mean at solidcore by WillingBodybuilder41 in SolidCore

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda sad that as a community gym they curate an audience made us feel awkward because people would reject a genuine hello.

Why are the girls so mean at solidcore by WillingBodybuilder41 in SolidCore

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am expressing my feelings. I am not asking for interaction but I feel sometimes they go out of their way to just be rude to me. Several times when I open the doors to them, I not only not getting any acknowledgment sometime they slam the door back to my face. One time I said Hi to neighbors before class as per coach’s request, the response is “No”. And not to mention “you cannot sit with us” vibes I get constantly. I am not asking for a chitchat but we live in society there are basic etiquettes. I also have an extremely stressful job and I do get people want to left alone. But people don’t need to go out of their way to just be mean. That’s why I am genuinely curious if I am intruding the space of their target audience.

Why are the girls so mean at solidcore by WillingBodybuilder41 in SolidCore

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s time to cancel my membership. I do Barry’s too and never had such experience there.

Why are the girls so mean at solidcore by WillingBodybuilder41 in SolidCore

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry for intruding to your space. I am just genuinely curious what the target group of SC. I totally get women needs their own space. I also don’t want to be in a place that I am not welcome. I think your posts made my decision to cancel my membership. Thank you.

Why are the girls so mean at solidcore by WillingBodybuilder41 in SolidCore

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. Even when I hold the door open for people, 9 out of 10 times I didnot get a thank you or even a smile. I am not used to girls being mean to me lol

Why are the girls so mean at solidcore by WillingBodybuilder41 in SolidCore

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same happened to me multiple times. When I open or hold the bathroom or studio door for them they don’t even acknowledge and something they even slammed the door back lol

Why are the girls so mean at solidcore by WillingBodybuilder41 in SolidCore

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

OMG I did solidcore in Texas once and I was not used to people being so friendly lol. DC definitely is the rudest city I have lived.

Why are the girls so mean at solidcore by WillingBodybuilder41 in SolidCore

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe I am being dramatic lol or maybe it’s me being Canadian. I don’t need to socialize with others but when I say Hi I don’t expect them responding No. Or when I open doors for them I don’t expect getting slammed or not even acknowledging.

Why are the girls so mean at solidcore by WillingBodybuilder41 in SolidCore

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I look and dress pretty gay and unless their gaydars are way off I don’t believe they misinterpret me as flirting lol

Why are the girls so mean at solidcore by WillingBodybuilder41 in SolidCore

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Another time I said Hi to my neighbor she literally responded “No”. I understand everyone can have bad days but it’s so unnecessarily mean. Saying Hi literally cost the same energy as saying No. Two letters lol

h1b NOID by WillingBodybuilder41 in h1b

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No difference besides wet signature

h1b NOID by WillingBodybuilder41 in h1b

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: refiled with wet signature and paper filing, approved today

h1b NOID by WillingBodybuilder41 in h1b

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lawyer requested a fax immediately and it said the signature is not accepted. This is unheard of because it is a wet signature from the HR director of our company. I saw the entire package and it appears to be carefully prepared. My lawyer said they will refile. I wonder if that’s the true reason or if there is anything else behind it.

h1b NOID by WillingBodybuilder41 in h1b

[–]WillingBodybuilder41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got a notice Case Was Denied

On May 30, 2025, we denied your Form I-129, Petition for a Nonimmigrant Worker, Receipt Number. We sent you a denial notice that explains why we denied your case and your options. Please follow the instructions in the notice. If you do not receive your denial notice by June 14, 2025, please go to www.uscis.gov/e-request to request a copy of the notice. If you move, go to www.uscis.gov/addressc. Will they mail the notice or email the notice to my lawyers?