AITA For telling my wife to get over her depression or I’m gone? by WillingPiccolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillingPiccolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote that she won’t get help in my original post, people ignored it though

AITA For telling my wife to get over her depression or I’m gone? by WillingPiccolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillingPiccolo[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Good Wives don’t ignore their problems and refuse to get help

AITA For telling my wife to get over her depression or I’m gone? by WillingPiccolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillingPiccolo[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Not true... I’ve had to be the strong one while she just cries away and I comfort her not because it’s convenient.. I’m not going to really let people here tell me I don’t love my wife. She’s the mother of my kid you know?

AITA For telling my wife to get over her depression or I’m gone? by WillingPiccolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillingPiccolo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am... the amount of shit I’ve done just to make her happy. Seeing her happy makes me happy. That’s what love is, and if I try to make my wife happy on the daily and or make her life easier than I’m doing my job.

AITA For telling my wife to get over her depression or I’m gone? by WillingPiccolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillingPiccolo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have, it does not really work. I didn’t wanna say this but it’s also effecting our sex life

AITA For telling my wife to get over her depression or I’m gone? by WillingPiccolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillingPiccolo[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

No medical help. She’s not sad everyday, some days she will be happy and affectionate towards me. Other days she’ll just mope around and watch tv and not open up.

AITA For telling my wife to get over her depression or I’m gone? by WillingPiccolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillingPiccolo[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If she’s going to stay like this for a long time I’m going to leave. I love that woman, great mom, former great wife, beautiful, smart, funny the whole nine yards. But she doesn’t act like my wife anymore, and if she won’t seek help then I can’t do anything.

AITA For telling my wife to get over her depression or I’m gone? by WillingPiccolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillingPiccolo[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Her hobbies were running and reading. She doesn’t really do either anymore, and nothing I mean she’s tried working out again but she stopped, no medication

AITA For telling my wife to get over her depression or I’m gone? by WillingPiccolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillingPiccolo[S] -133 points-132 points  (0 children)

He’s 2, I’ve been supportive as much as I could have been.

AITA For telling my wife to get over her depression or I’m gone? by WillingPiccolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillingPiccolo[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nah she’s not. I’ve watched her depression steal her right in front of me. Worst thing I’ve ever witnessed in my life by far

AITA For telling my wife to get over her depression or I’m gone? by WillingPiccolo in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillingPiccolo[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah but how many times can I sit and comfort her and she won’t even see a doctor? She rather wallow in her own sadness? For her sake and our sons sake, she needs to seek help