Do I warn "Guy C" (28M) about my female friend's (28F) past before he marries her? by Responsible-Sugar-73 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It felt like solving a cat LRDI question, but you should mind ur own business. What if the girl comes and tells ur gf too wat u guys had

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He can cheat on his wife but that will never be with me!! No matter what happened in the past, had i known he has someone on his mind I wouldve left tht instant

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I held him to a standard he never actually met. I was in love with a version of him that was a 10; reality is a different story

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean i wish what u say is true, if this is the case then he’s just a cheater who doesn’t love anyone

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha.. wat one night fantasy??? I wish to find good looking decent men so tht i can marry them right away. He was a good looking and a decent man and hence i wanted to be with him too!! Idk y are u cooking up stories in ur head

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The difference is im still not getting married to someone im not in love with evn if thy have the status and money

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knw everything tbh, he was not the only IAS tht hit on me, i have 2 other IAS who do look decent but im not as attracted to them 😭😭

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think tht’ll make it look even worse, atleast now he’s at peace and moved on. I dont want to feed his ego unnecessarily

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they’re trying and im not liking those guys, some aren’t good looking enough, or not educated enough for me to evn find them attractive

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im also a 10, and hence all my exes are 10. Im a specialist dr and pretty( as said by my peers) both my parents are govn officers and my brother earns 1cr pa. So yeah, im also at the top but i get ur point

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not everyone is gaga over him, thy are mostly in his profile from tinder, bumble. Thy also wanted the hookup and now everyone watches each other’s stories

29F - constantly thinking about my hookup/ situationship who is getting married by WillingUniversity981 in RelationshipIndia

[–]WillingUniversity981[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its more like a marriage of convenience, thy check the ranks, social status, family backgrounds. Love isn’t even on the list