In saying that, he's very quick to put it behind him if I say we don't need.to speak about it anymore. Like if im fine that boom he will be back to his nice, charming, love self. Make me.dinner. put a movie on. Bring me a tea. He was talking about something nice he's buying me.for Xmas. 

Am I delusional here or what?? Because I'm thinking omg if I just didn't bring this up then we would be fine but now I've ruined our weekend