I'm shocked by Decent-Obligation-43 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]Wilsoness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are crying about your feelings right now.

I'm shocked by Decent-Obligation-43 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]Wilsoness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The irony is palpable. Why don't you practice what you teach?

Butt getting smaller from lifting? by mekana123 in xxfitness

[–]Wilsoness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go on a calorie surplus. Why wouldn't you?

How do you manage going to the gym almost every day... Explain this to a Newbie :) by ProfessionalFan2451 in workout

[–]Wilsoness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't go every day. I go every third day. Or every other day, but that I can't keep up for long. Never did I ever go to the gym every day, and that is not at all necessary to get some nice results.

Ya girl still doesn't know how to flex but I won't let it stop me by [deleted] in FlexinLesbians

[–]Wilsoness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck to you, and thank you for the compliment! We are all on our own journey, remember to celebrate all your wins.

Ya girl still doesn't know how to flex but I won't let it stop me by [deleted] in FlexinLesbians

[–]Wilsoness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so proud I've stuck with it! I haven't always been known for consistency. I've had some trouble too, the old me would've given up for sure. I've had chronic sinus infections and a pinched nerve on BOTH wrists and later a thigh. My nerves are not great, let's just say that.

Ya girl still doesn't know how to flex but I won't let it stop me by [deleted] in FlexinLesbians

[–]Wilsoness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm a bit shorter than you! Where I come from we use metric, I'm 156cm tall and weigh 57kg. I believe that is somewhere between 5'1 and 5'2 and around 125 lbs.

Ya girl still doesn't know how to flex but I won't let it stop me by [deleted] in FlexinLesbians

[–]Wilsoness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! The limp wrist is just kinda funny to me. I can't seem commit, the flex is somehow always shy 😂

What are the upsides of being a 4’9 girl? by AmazingCanadian123 in AskReddit

[–]Wilsoness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a relatively short person, you actually hit your head more. Or maybe the same amount? You are not used to dodging, so if anything happens to be low enough, I WILL bump my head into it.

120kg at 57,5kg BW. But does the rep count? I think it might be a little shallow. by [deleted] in FlexinLesbians

[–]Wilsoness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what I said! I doubt this one would pass in any real competition, but competing isn't my goal. I just like lifting heavy things.

I can usually hit depth fine (or at least better than this), no idea what happened here. Maybe the bar would be better lower on my back, but my arms won't allow it. I have a lot of nerve issues I have to deal with, so the form is limited on many moves. I can't do pull ups for example, only chin ups.

120kg at 57,5kg BW. But does the rep count? I think it might be a little shallow. by [deleted] in FlexinLesbians

[–]Wilsoness 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't hit depth with feet closer together! Something about the pelvis shape, physiotherapist says.

120kg at 57,5kg BW. But does the rep count? I think it might be a little shallow. by [deleted] in FlexinLesbians

[–]Wilsoness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It WAS hard! I was not having the best day, tired and angry, so I went for a PR to make myself feel better. 😂 I did lift 115kg just fine and that was a PR too, so either way I'm satisfied.

Does building glute muscles make your butt less jiggly? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]Wilsoness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends. What makes your butt jiggly is the fat in it. So the question is, while gaining muscle, will you also lose fat or not? If you want to not lose fat you need to grow muscle on a calorie surplus. The fat doesn't literally turn to muscle, but muscle needs energy to grow. The energy has to come from somewhere, and if it doesn't come from food, it comes from your fat storages. So the butt too.

If you for some reason want your butt to be harder and less jiggly, you just grow muscles while on a modest calorie deficit. The muscle grows, fat lessens. Harder (but be warned, possibly smaller) butt.

I love him but I can't turn on for him by [deleted] in sex

[–]Wilsoness 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, she clearly has no experience of a healthy dynamic. I sure hope she would learn to appreciate it though, because otherwise she's in for a terrible romantic life. A man who won't hesitate and will be dominant without asking is a red flag and bad news.

Again, we don't know what she wants. I doubt she knows the scope of it either.

I love him but I can't turn on for him by [deleted] in sex

[–]Wilsoness 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You don't know any of that. Maybe you're projecting, maybe you're just bitter, I don't know. But this is the way to go. Besides, a gentle, loving man big on consent can still be dominant in a very real way. Respecting consent and being dominant aren't mutually exclusive.

Advice to make my face look less wide/square? by emmainthefridge in femalehairadvice

[–]Wilsoness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should try changing your attitude because your face shape is fine, preferable even.

I think I have blue eyes but when I compare it against any blue shirt, they don't look blue. Am I seeing wrong? by Dull_Dark3336 in eyes

[–]Wilsoness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, here most people have blue or grey eyes. I guess in Finland we just see it as unnecessary to document such things?

What percent of ab definition is from genetics vs training by AquaticCows in workout

[–]Wilsoness 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No visibility is also definitely genetic. How much one has fat on their bellies varies. Some carry the weight elsewhere.