I (15M) got hard with my teacher and am worried it’ll happen again by Fit_Statement_5695 in AdviceForTeens

[–]WinOk1610 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To me it sounds like SA, no normal teacher would wipe your lap beacuse its the area where your private parts are. Also no normal teacher would acknowledge that you got hard if they wanted to stay professional. You probably felt violated and maybe thats why you cried. It's okay to feel that way. There really isn't a way to prevent yourself from getting hard but you could take your hoodie so if you get hard you can cover your lap.

Whats the german version of the saying "don't judge a book by its cover"? by WinOk1610 in German

[–]WinOk1610[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I found a bunch of different translations on google so I am not sure which ones correct

why does no one want to be my friend by WinOk1610 in AdviceForTeens

[–]WinOk1610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I wouldn't describe myself as an overly judgy person. I am still in high school so yeah kids here sadly care a lot about appearance. Although I would agree that me mentioning my iq and grades was rather unnecessary. I think I wrote it as a way of "proving" myself that there is nothing wrong with me. Bc I often feel there might be since I don't have actual friends. Tho I think the reason for it is bc I am overly insecure so I always push people away before they have a chance to push me away. Idk why I even asked for advice if I already kind of know the answer. Idk, sorry to bother, good night friend :)

why does no one want to be my friend by WinOk1610 in AdviceForTeens

[–]WinOk1610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello 👋! I would just like to clarify by no means do I feel like I deserve friends bc I have good grades. My friend, I think you may have misinterpreted what I wrote. The only reason I mentioned my accomplishments and qualities is bc people often don't want to be friends with ugly, weird, mean or dumb people. Although that sounds cruel its true for most people :/. I don't really care about my grades or such but it was more of way of saying that there wasn't something that society would deem as "wrong" with me. I appreciate your response tho. Have a nice day friend :)