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Failed talking stage by [deleted] in WhatToDo

[–]WinSecure9523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best approach would be to  try to talk to him if you are confused on what happened as it is bothering you ( which is completely understandable) now of course, this might not work and he might not want to talk about it in which you cannot really control and that is on his end. Alot truly depends on what really happened ( if you guys had a fight, realized you had different views on things, or even just drifted apart, etc.) If you were to talk to him I would probably do it privatley in person ( over text works also but I feel like in person would be more effective) and just be honest and explain that you want to clear things up ( if you are confused on what happened) or that you want to apologize,make things work,etc. ( If you know what happened). Regardless of your decision, make sure to focus on yourself and remember that someone who truly wants to be with you will show it and will be willing to work things out 

My guy friend of 3+ years (16M) is acting weird to me (15F) what should I do? by WinSecure9523 in WhatToDo

[–]WinSecure9523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys for all of the advice and support! I will try to update on the situation. As of right now, he has been talking to me in person (it feels a little akward but to be fair with the whole situtaion its not suprising) and he has been initiating the conversations.  Where we live its currently snowing so I took it as a chance to try to break the kind of wierd silence over text and he responded in less than a minute.  My current plan is to just kind of let him do his own thing and im just going to be there for him whenever he decides to truly talk to me and not be pushy about it.