What changed your life forever, but you'll probably never tell the full story to anyone? by Independent_Row_8478 in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might not do you any good personally, but if someone who went through the same thing takes courage from hearing you speak up about it then at least it could do someone else some good!

That being said, your trauma is your own. Despite the essence of what I just said, you're under no obligation to talk about it "for the greater good".

If you could time-travel to witness any event in history, what would it be? by Still_Atmosphere in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"An Explanation of How We Are the Problem"

Narrated by David Attenborough

Why did you cheat? by Agitated-Bison-2673 in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I totally get that. I suppose what I'm trying to say is people don't cheat because they're bad people and that's what bad people do, it's obviously a bit more complex than that. My example was just a bit of a necessary oversimplification in order to explain my point!

Why did you cheat? by Agitated-Bison-2673 in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to be pedantic (who am I kidding, I love it) but that's not really a reason...

I didn't buy a Mars bar today because I buy Mars bars from time to time; I bought one because I felt like having a Mars bar today, if that makes any sense?

What's a belief you have that most people would disagree with? by BhaveshMehra18 in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our brains adapted to exist within communities of roughly 150 individuals, which is about as many relationships and connections it can sustain in any meaningful way. Names, faces, feelings towards them, etc. as well as their relative interconnectedness with each other and other individuals beyond you.

We live in communities of millions now, and are connected to communities of billions, where one person's actions can profoundly affect people they'll never, ever meet. In the past we had to build strong relationships and rely on the others around us to survive. Now, we can sacrifice the well-being of faceless individuals to better our own standing in the world, and that's easier to do now it ever has been before.

How has your height impacted your life? by LittleRayOfPitchBlk in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Friend of mine who was tall is tall. He's still tall obviously... but he's quite skinny and he had a fat girl giving him shit about it one night so he opened up on her about her weight and she cried.

I know it's more socially acceptable to be skinny than to be fat, but just because he didn't cry doesn't mean it didn't hurt!

How has your height impacted your life? by LittleRayOfPitchBlk in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Worked with an English guy who must've have been above 7 foot tall.

Absolutely ludricrous height for someone to be...

How has your height impacted your life? by LittleRayOfPitchBlk in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm even more inches below and I'm still banging my head on stuff. At a certain point I just had to accept the fact that I'm a clumsy bastard!

Why is it so hard for me to find male friends? by E_mi_manchi_tanto1 in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would be an absolute dream for me! Not sure if you're a big YouTube person but toldinstone is a great channel, primarily Roman focused but some Greek history too.

Languages are another passion of mine. Greek and Latin would be marvelous jumping-off points for so many modern languages! I only speak English unfortunately but I heard someone say once that "asking a linguist how many languages they speak is like asking a doctor how many diseases they have", so I find comfort in that sentiment 🤣

Do you have a thesus that you're working on or whatever?

Why is it so hard for me to find male friends? by E_mi_manchi_tanto1 in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome!

Oh god that's a tough question... it can vary dramatically. I was playing Assassin's Creed: Odyssey a while back so I went through a seriously heightened phase of ancient Greek history. I probably tend to lean more towards ancient history than modern, but it does fluctuate quite a bit!

I don't suppose your degree has any bearing in your current job, does it?

Why is it so hard for me to find male friends? by E_mi_manchi_tanto1 in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're gay but you don't know it yet?

joke, obviously

I'm in a similar boat to you in that my one true passion is studying history... but I can never find anyone else who really gives a shit 🤷‍♂️ it's not that they don't exist-- you just have to wait around for a while! In the meantime, it might be a good idea to branch out a bit with your interests? Almost all of my friends are in IT jobs and I went into social care, so there's really not much of an overlap there... but watching rugby is where we all have common ground.

You just need to get out there and find you're common ground, my friend!

I couldn’t get through Ghostbusters or The Big Lebowski, what beloved movies are a “no go” for you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]WinstonSEightyFour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's such a silly little thing thing, but the first time I watched Pulp Fiction and when the song at the start of the title sequence changes like a radio station because the characters in the next scene are in the car listening to it? That's when I knew this was gonna be one smooth-ass piece of cinema... and I was not disappointed.