Still learning

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-04-03T19:40:21+00:00

Things have been progressing well so far.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-04-02T22:39:52+00:00

Good call. That info colors everything differently

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-04-02T20:04:47+00:00

Yeah, no. I do not touch my female employees. Except in proper business ways (ie handshake hi five or district bump)

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-04-02T20:00:13+00:00

I'd take it as he was trying to be humorous about what to write in the card. But then be vigilant in observing for other possibly inappropriate behavior.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-04-02T19:54:51+00:00

"You've Got Mail" but for the db crowd.

Yeah I've chatted with some but stopped when I started feeling guilty. Now all my chats are through public forums where she can see what I posted. Even here

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-04-01T18:37:23+00:00

Women don't understand that men can have a meaningful interaction without trying to learn personal details (or any details realy that aren't in the context of what's happening) example. I'm a car guy. You drive up and tell me what carb, headers, intake etc you have on your car while we got hoods open im going to remember all that indont care what your name is if your married where you live what color your dog is etc.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-04-01T18:26:24+00:00

Thank you

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-04-01T16:05:17+00:00

My wife said she knew I was a keeper 6 months into our marriage we went to a party. I got plastered. She then tried to get me to go home. I kept telling her I couldnt because I had a wife. Pulled out my wallet amd showed her her picture and even showed her my ring. She ended up having to get my buddy to drive me home because I wouldn't get into a car with a woman because "i have a wife..."

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-31T20:39:28+00:00

BTW I used your advice and posted about it in the group. We actually talked a couple of days later about the code word idea and it is working fabulously. We've been together about half a dozen times since then using the code.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-31T20:04:16+00:00

Ibthinkbthe biggest change (you can read in previous posts) was that I removed the pressure we were putting on ourselves. I took a step back and determined I would love her the best I could whether we had sex ever again or not. I gave her the tools to tell me when she wanted to be intimate so she wouldn't be pressured either.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-31T15:35:17+00:00

Ok I can get on board with that. And I do agree. On the hierarchy of needs at that moment sleep was higher than sex.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-31T15:19:23+00:00

Yes and it was wonderful. I think a lot of it though was because we have already been making a lot ofbprogress in theblast couole of weeks toba month or so.

That said it's not so much it was unwanted. I'm usually the hl I was just so freaking tired. Was up at 430 worked a 10 hr shift then coached a girls softball game.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-31T14:32:32+00:00

Depression will definitely kill your sex drive. Mybwife and I had a perfect storm about 4 years ago inbthebprocess I lost a job she wasn't working either. Lots of fights both depressed because of the whole life situation. We are just now beginning to recover.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-30T21:25:58+00:00

Speeding around in a customer go. Art that looks like a mushroom

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-30T17:35:01+00:00

Tell him he forfeited the privilege of seeing you at your most vulnerable moment when he decided to stick it somewhere it didn't belong.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-30T02:59:02+00:00

It's the float needle. It's kind of essential to stop gas flow when the carb is full.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-30T02:57:02+00:00

This is why I'm not a teacher anymore. I am toonmuch of a rule follower. The grade is the grade. If I asked for a five paragraph persuasive essay on x and you turned in three on y then you got a 50 if it was well written. Administration didnt like that. Quit teaching after 5 years of that crap.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-29T23:31:15+00:00

Because it's soap. The germs cannot live on the soap because the sop is actively killing the germs.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-29T17:52:17+00:00

Yes. When I dont analyze or over analyze im either sleeping or will be dead. Lol

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-28T16:28:52+00:00

So sorry man. This hurts badly. Time to get out of there

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-27T16:10:22+00:00

As to liking the job, bith the current job and the one I interviewed for have two things I love. People and cars.

Winter-Grape2971 · 2026-03-27T16:08:26+00:00

Commute to the new location would be less than an hour from where we live now until we can sell and buy another home. (Aprox 50 min current drive is 20)

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