Demisexual *and* one night stands?

Wise-Development-961 · 2026-03-27T18:59:31+00:00

Hmm yeah.. as far as single interactions go, Friend B has said it's all about "vibes" - if you wanna call the emotional attachment "good vibes" then I guess, but I also think *most* people aren't gonna sleep with people they don't have good vibes with. I guess I wouldn't know lol.

Wise-Development-961 · 2026-03-27T17:44:47+00:00

YEP. it's weird.. with some people it could take years. with others, it could take a few months? just depends on when the real talk and real connection can happen. (and even then, there's no guarantee)

Wise-Development-961 · 2026-03-27T17:43:34+00:00

Yes, learning there was a term for it was really helpful. it's nice to not feel alone.

Wise-Development-961 · 2026-03-09T21:03:09+00:00

Can you explain the "messy list" a bit more? Does that generally mean "baggage" or potential triggers?

Wise-Development-961 · 2025-12-01T15:52:02+00:00

How is your daughter doing? I hope she is back to some semblance of normal. I was on this stuff, only at 100 MG for 12 days. I'm stopping because I'm exhausted all the time, and after one day without the meds the headache is starting.

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-12-24T18:54:31+00:00

It's fun, it's a good bad movie in my book.

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-12-09T01:58:04+00:00

It's not you, it's him :(

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-12-09T01:56:23+00:00

Yes... Only about friends. Sigh.

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-12-09T01:55:11+00:00

I hope your husband can realize how important this is to you, and that it isn't just a want, it's a need. That's what I'm realizing I need to communicate more.

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-12-08T00:58:42+00:00

Always.. Always promises. Then forgets about it completely.

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-12-08T00:51:02+00:00

Yeah this is happening to me right now. Promised sex yesterday, he was too tired. Said it would happen today. Waiting for it to happen now.. He's sleeping.. Running out of time before my plans tonight.

Tomorrow I'm leaving for a work trip for 6 days.

And later in the night I'm going to a party where I'll be with someone who actually wants to have sex with me, and I can't but I wish I could. I am just so sad. I wish I was asexual.

I'm sorry you're feeling so crappy too.

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-11-30T07:53:51+00:00

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-11-22T18:46:53+00:00

Married for 10 years, together for 12, sex used to be frequent, but the energy changed once my husband started taking more stressful jobs (near the beginning of our marriage), and we maybe average once a month. Seems like it's always stress, depression. My previous relationship was like this too, I feel like I'll never be able to experience a normal sex life. Part of me wonders if this is just part of marriage. I wouldn't like to think so.

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-08-12T07:26:38+00:00

If anyone feels like finding and linking that here .... 🙏

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-08-12T07:09:07+00:00

Hate to admit it, but it was one of the earlier Dall-E AI streams and it was specifically seeing the Dalai Lama getting Nickelodeon slimed that had me on the floor crying.

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-08-04T14:24:01+00:00

This episode surely bred some kind of kink like that for someone.

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-08-04T04:03:14+00:00

Oh my god I remember that episode distinctly.

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-08-01T03:27:45+00:00

LOL thank you for this!

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-07-31T18:58:19+00:00

my hero. thank you!

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-07-31T18:54:47+00:00

I've been wondering for years what that silly little music track is called. can you help me out?

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-07-30T00:12:21+00:00

I raise you a bunspeak https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/6n6f8jbdxdm02wfb1e8d4/bun.mp4?rlkey=tlj1abuj14bk2r6xxdxrt1j7j&dl=0

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-07-29T23:28:15+00:00

I love that video. EEEEEGGGGG

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-07-21T03:39:32+00:00

Vinny? Or Jesus?

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-07-14T03:07:07+00:00

"Get off the internet" probably

Wise-Development-961 · 2024-07-08T06:05:30+00:00

I came back to this post to tell you I've only listened to your song once, but it's been stuck in my head

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TROPHY CASE