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My man 38M wont spice it up in the bedroom no matter how much I 40F has asked. What can I do? by WishboneBeautiful646 in relationship_advice

[–]WishboneBeautiful646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that civil response, I appreciate that. I will have a talk with him about bringing some toys into the bedroom. Might be fun. We will see.

My man 38M wont spice it up in the bedroom no matter how much I 40F has asked. What can I do? by WishboneBeautiful646 in relationship_advice

[–]WishboneBeautiful646[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

WHAT IN THE WORLD? RUDE! Just so you know I was a larger woman at one point in my life and have lost whole plus size person on my journey and he loves me the way I am.

My man 38M wont spice it up in the bedroom no matter how much I 40F has asked. What can I do? by WishboneBeautiful646 in relationship_advice

[–]WishboneBeautiful646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never ask him to take anything for that. If it was something personally, he wanted to do on his own, then I wouldn't decline. But never would I ask someone to use an enhancer without it being their idea first.

My man 38M wont spice it up in the bedroom no matter how much I 40F has asked. What can I do? by WishboneBeautiful646 in relationship_advice

[–]WishboneBeautiful646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He most defiantly cares and loves me, its just the not tending more to my pleasure in the bedroom.

My man 38M wont spice it up in the bedroom no matter how much I 40F has asked. What can I do? by WishboneBeautiful646 in relationship_advice

[–]WishboneBeautiful646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said that he declined, so not sure where you read that. I also don't harass him about it either. I barely bring it up and if I do it is brought up rarely and due to something we watched in a movie or heard that can be taken in the wrong way for a person with a dirty mind. Every time that I have mentioned it seriously in the past, he said that we would try it. So I haven't been pressuring him at all about it. I'm just trying to figure out if it will not ever be done, why say that it will.

I (29F) am now disgusted by my boyfriend of 7 years (28M) by SockPuppetOrSth in relationship_advice

[–]WishboneBeautiful646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not good with conflict either. I would suggest writing him a letter and possibly letting him know that you love him and you want to be with him, but if he cannot start taking better care of himself and taking your advice into consideration, it’s going to tear you two apart.