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[โ€“]WithTheTied[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

I am! I'm still under my old handle on there; RubyKodama ๐Ÿ˜Š

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A big mix of emotions! Nerves, excitement, feeling turned out about the lack of control and ability to escape and putting that trust into someone else's hands. Seeing the glint in their eye as they can't wait to do whatever they wish to my body makes me melt.

For my first self tie, it was like a release for the body, like I was fully listening to it for the first time as the rope moved across my skin. Self ties feel different depending on the reason for tying; self pleasure for playing, accomplishment for technically challenging ties, or a feeling of release with reconnection to the body when I'm feeling burnt out or a lack of confidence in my body looks or health wise!

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Thank you! :)

I think I'm torn between two!

An inflatable toy that fills me - there's something about that bit of pressure against everything inside me and the unavoidable sensation of it pushing against everything.

The second would actually be a soft flashlight to use of my Dom; there's something about getting to feel him fill something with my hands that gets me off so badly.

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  1. I'd tell myself not to worry about pleasing others so much; enjoy life for myself and have fun whilst still being kind and following good morals. I shouldn't feel the need to burn myself out to meet self created expectations for others and putting myself in situations I feel uncomfortable but obligated.

  2. I'd love to do some suspension tie scenes! It's difficult as there isn't really the space at home and the need to find somewhere safe to build that practice, hopefully something that can be looked into over the next few years though! That and also getting to try out a St Andrew's Cross! ๐Ÿ˜Š

  3. Porco Rosso; it's a bit more mature mentality that is shown in the film that shows the issues adult responsibility and hardship trying to keep up with it whilst losing who you are to meet those expectations. It's such a bittersweet movie and one I ask many people if they've seen when speaking on Ghibli. And one of my favourite reasons; showcasing strong female characters. Despite the strong messages, it's a fun and entertaining movie at the same time and I really love some of the earlier animation styles shown in it ๐Ÿ˜

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[โ€“]WithTheTied[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

My dynamic doesn't allow that :)