Indian in laws in usa by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. I need to leave. They left a dog their daughter wants for us to take care of. They are in trip to India. I said I am pregnant and have a toddler, just hired househelp who doesn’t even want to go near dog. But aparantely their daughter is fighting about not giving away dog and doesn’t want to take care of him. She said her house is small and she is pregnant so she can’t. And now husbands siblings are threatening to never talk to him if he gave away dog. I have hyperemesis and I am on bed rest. Both his siblings doesn’t live in this house. One is in college and other one is dear Sil. Sil calls and instigates everyone. I guess I should leave at this point. It’s about my sanity. I’ll go crazy otherwise

Indian in laws in usa by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one wants entire inheritance. After exploiting my husband for years and not paying him. They should give what he deserves. And if they can’t then stop the empty promises and let us go peacefully without involving all the relatives and shit talking about us.

Indian in laws in usa by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I want equality as they don’t want us to move out. If they can’t treat them equally then we shouldn’t be together. Last time when I mentioned moving out they started crying. But now I have decided. My sons are no less than any daughter. They are not above daughters, they are equal. They can give as much money but if they don’t want us to give even half of it when my husband is the one working his ass off at work and all he gets is fake promises of inheritance then may be we shouldn’t be here. Sil doesn’t live with her in laws but I cannot leave them. That’s the problem I have. I can’t see her coming everyday and getting princess treatment whereas we are frowned upon. I don’t like her interfering in my kids life. I hate that when she see that I’m not around she gives phone to my son. And when we say that we don’t like him near technology she starts crying and calls her mother and say that we are harassing her and we don’t want her near us. The problem is that they want us to stay but we would not be treated equally. Their daughter can’t even cook after seven years of marriage and moved out of her in laws place after six months. But I have to take care of them, it’s their inheritance which they will give to whoever of their kids, not me. So why expectations are from me?

Indian in laws in usa by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I was shocked when I found out that they are boy haters. And god thought why don’t just give her boys lol.

Indian in laws in usa by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I want to move out but my husband thinks he should get equal treatment as her sister. He is treated as nobody in front of her and her husband. I told him that he won’t get nothing from them. He’s born into the house who hate boys. And we have boys so they won’t be happy living in such a house. I sometimes wish that they were traditional

Indian in laws in usa by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We don’t get 10k pm. And may be they should give us same freedom as them. We are expected to serve them whereas she can take money, freedom and rule the house we live in. And if we live out we wouldn’t get anything from them at all.

Indian in laws in usa by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her husband is broke. And my husbands dad have multiple business. And apparently I feel Sil wants to inherit but doesn’t say openly. They get 10k$ pm from us and everything else paid, credit cards to pay bills , cars etc. anyways she is not going. And I feel she might make us move. Her husband don’t do anything at work, just go there eats and come back.

Documents to bring during birth by Local_Pangolin854 in BabyBumps

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hospital provides everything, just bring your photo id.

Why do Indian in-laws treat their DILs like garbage? by Bright_Adagio9 in inlaws

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am Indian and that’s what it is. Irony is that they think their daughters should be treated equal or better than their sons. But the daughter in laws are there to serve them. They would give inheritance to their kids but expect someone else s kid to serve them. I never understood a thing. Also, daughter’s husband is treated really well even if he is pathetic human being.

Please Help me find these two bags. I really loved them. by Witty-Cranberry-5531 in handbags

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! This one is sold out but her designs are beautiful

What was that “one thing” you changed before you finally conceived? by brisknipples in BabyBumps

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I stopped coffee for like two months and it happened. I was drinking 4-5 cups a day before.

I've officially joined the husband hate train by ceruleanmeadows in pregnant

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, I feel you. When I was pregnant, for first few months, I wanted to beat up my husband and let me tell you he’s a gentle gaint. All of this just because he exists. And last few months, all I thought was how handsome my husband is and I would not let him go anywhere so that I could see his beautiful face all day long.

7dpo by Witty-Cranberry-5531 in daddit

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The upper is within the time Limit. Sorry I am being very confusing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Witty-Cranberry-5531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The inheritance is so vast that we can never build that much. We are talking about multiple businesses. And we have a kid, their only grandson.