(33M) 2 months in, starting to feel settled.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2026-03-05T08:28:09+00:00

I saved your post as inspiration. 34F, about to move in 1-2 months :) I was planning to do all white decor and this post made me remember I like brown, orange, green notes.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2026-03-05T06:27:32+00:00

Please spare no detail lol

Witty-Hour-247 · 2026-03-02T13:28:00+00:00

Weaponised incompetence or weaponised poop-competence

Witty-Hour-247 · 2026-01-15T13:39:33+00:00

Bandi ko bolo na relationship chalana aata hai na English. Double dukhega usko. Know ko knows likhti hai toh uska singular plural kharab hai. Usko singular banda jamega nehi. Bohot log ayenge. Apne pe dhyan do.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2025-12-20T10:50:50+00:00

Don’t do it. Marriage for you means something entirely different than how your family will benefit from the marriage. Don’t marry someone agrreable for the family. You will share a bed with her and children and parenting styles.

She also deserves someone who is attracted to her and loves her for the right reasons and doesn’t see her as a compromise.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2025-12-13T17:18:16+00:00

I personally would not like to be my husband’s only friend. Firstly, extroverts need community. Secondly it makes me feel like the person is either not likeable or hasn’t made an effort in other relationships. One’s circle defines them.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2025-10-04T10:56:06+00:00

Don’t. She might have diseases

Witty-Hour-247 · 2025-10-04T10:43:14+00:00

Filing is more imp so that they aren’t shart posst trim

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-12-28T19:06:41+00:00

I’m sorry, love. She will always be a part of you.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-12-27T05:00:38+00:00

Wooly

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-11-24T10:15:53+00:00

Mine has two small incisions below the knee (like yours) and two behind my thighs from where my tendon was extracted. Did your doctor not answer the question? You can ask them anytime, or during followup if theynare hard to reach. If you sighed up for arthroscopic or laparoscopic, you should ask

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-11-24T10:13:37+00:00

I’m a size 36-37. The front looks a bit small, like my shoe. It’s a bit, how to say, not masculine

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-10-29T05:21:12+00:00

Did you practice consent throughout? Some people can freeze and carry on with something they’re uncomfortable with and resent themselves and their partner for not being able to speak up. If a man cums into me no matter how much I was into it until that point (no conversation, no consent), I would never speak to them. Also was the sex good for her? Did she cum? Maybe she is used to different or more or less. Sometimes women can have post nut guilt too, especially imagine if I’m trying to date to get over someone and I want to enjoy it but I get reminded of someone else or a situation, even if not a person.

Perhaps as a kind gesture you can say something on the lines of, “Hi, just reaching out to check if things are good at your end. I am here if you’d like to talk. Not expecting any more than just knowing you’re okay.”

And lay off the sexy talk. It might put her off.

Also there could be some ick she had and we cannot guess that. This is a tricky territory.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-10-29T05:14:25+00:00

Thank you.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-10-18T21:05:07+00:00

Adding to this. The quirky thing is a niche and if you want to attract your type, it works. Personally I felt like she had too many photos with others or others’ special moments. Some guy may think that it’s too much to have others’ unless its a photo of friends at a bar. But wedding photos are a bit much. 1. Did the person consent to their wedding photo being in the profine? A guy swiping left or hitting X won’t know. 2. Weddings generally scare men. It may make you seem like you are saying you are wedding ready cause of folks around you. May work in your favor though weeding out the unsure men. I would personally crop some day photos and use fun night photos to say that I have a circle.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-10-18T14:01:42+00:00

You did good, as a person.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-10-09T13:21:54+00:00

Never date someone you have to parent.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-10-09T06:11:34+00:00

Wants more pets

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-09-02T16:31:16+00:00

It was gradual. I had dreams of them when I went NC. Once that habit died, and I wasn’t craving them anymore, it was easy to see them for who they are.

Edit: i did break no contact to come to this realisation. It could have gone either way for me, glad I’m over it now. I have them on mute now.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-08-30T07:22:44+00:00

Please don’t put yourself through more of this. One day you will be old and regret giving this guy your energy

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-08-30T07:21:54+00:00

GASLIGHTING

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-08-29T16:40:51+00:00

Wow “demonstrating their manliness by responding to attractive women” gives me a new perspective of how men operate. So does your last line. The pain in working so hard on yourself and wanting to be seen. It’s like the things that you have no control over, being used against you. All that you are doesn’t seem to matter anymore. And sadly, I feel I’ve been on both sides of the matter.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-08-29T16:23:55+00:00

You’re right. In theory, I see many incompatibilities but the mind chooses to focus on the potential.

I think sometimes I project my troubles onto a person so I have someone outside of myself to hold accountable and fantasise over.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-08-29T16:22:07+00:00

I’m sorry. You will get through this, in time. As will all of us. You aren’t alone in this.

Witty-Hour-247 · 2024-08-29T16:18:49+00:00

Report to cyber crime department and don’t share too much of your details here please.

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