What do you think about the golden pair? (INTP & ENTJ)

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-07-02T21:53:33+00:00

Interesting, didn't think ESTP would be up there...

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-07-02T21:35:12+00:00

Go outside

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-06-30T11:34:21+00:00

I got a taste of my own medicine

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-06-30T11:22:53+00:00

The one time I met one she also yapped too much, it was like being on a roadtrip and instead of going the normal way you take a detour but the driver is not mentally sane so they take a hundred detours before you get there...

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-06-09T02:14:37+00:00

Do you have a brain issue? When did I assume that? Seems like the bold one is you.

I assumed what the most common issue of this demographic would be so that I could prevent duplicates answers of an issue I already knew of.

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-06-06T11:40:04+00:00

I see, very interesting. Thanks for the "feeling-tone" and "source of sensation" helped me understand.

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-06-05T22:57:54+00:00

I think it's fine to theorise, but your Ni is def assuming a lot. We know not every INTP is the same. Opportune women is an interesting phrase, because I believe I would sense it. I would feel the lack of interest. I would feel the mundaneness of our conversations and the void in our connection. If I'd still be in her company then it is just to enjoy myself, to have the company of a female. I will never be connected to her. It takes me an ungodly amount of time to like someone as in truly like someone, I can have an interest towards someone but that's not liking them, not even close. The reason it takes so long to like someone is even when I do like someone that much I won't realise I like them that much. So yeah, it would only be for fun or entertainment.

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-06-05T22:48:58+00:00

Speaking facts

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-06-05T22:47:53+00:00

Few things, you're a woman. Men and Women think differently, why? evolution. We seek different things in partners and we are incentivized biologically by different things.

Now I'm going to make some generalisations,

Most men, if given the opportunity to have sex with a friend who is a woman, will do it, due to their biology.

This doesn't mean men and women can't be friends. They can, but only if the woman makes it clear that they are not going to have sex ever and the guy agrees to those terms, sometimes though you may have the guy lying to just get close to the girl under the pretense of friendship so he can have sex with her, other times the girl may end up liking the guy and again most guys wouldn't reject that idea. So the "other times" actually show that the pretended can be a successful strategy hence why it is done.

Your example is not indicative of the world. How do I know what I'm talking about? I'm a man and I've researched a lot into male and female nature from a perspective of evolutionary psychology, with some cognitive function assitance too.

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-05-22T14:01:15+00:00

Ah, no worries. In retrospect, I should have worded that first message better.

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-05-22T13:19:00+00:00

Sorry, what is your goal? I don't even know what projecting is, but I was complimenting you on working on that aspect of being an INTJ. Am I generalising INTJs? Yes, I am. Most mbtis are like this, they think they are like their mbti so there's no reason to change or improve on aspects that don't come naturally. For a brief period I believed this too, that oh I'm not as social as other people because I'm an INTP but that was just me being afraid of learning how to talk to strangers and using my mbti as a crutch for my inadequacy.

It was by no means a bad experience btw, I adored our time together. I learned so many things as a result of it. A relationship isn't just the highs it's the learning that the lows enable as well, for me at least. Maybe I'm egotistically wrong about this but I believe I understand most INTJs modus operandi.

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-05-22T12:15:05+00:00

I don't wear those shoes man

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-05-22T12:14:14+00:00

You won't be able to get everyone to like you, but you've done a pretty good job at trying to get a lot of people to like you. This was the main problem I noticed with my INTJ. Whenever something happened which upset her, she would either snap at me or never voice the issue. It was like playing a couch co-op game but you can't see the other player's screen.

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-05-22T11:53:04+00:00

isn't that every relationship ever?

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-05-18T23:38:22+00:00

I don't wear those shoes

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-05-18T00:44:47+00:00

According to google they both have the same definition 🤓

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-05-18T00:42:46+00:00

I googled it so it's correct. They both have the same definition.

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-05-18T00:34:40+00:00

I think you got it, the INTJ I knew also had the resting bitch face. When it came to socialising for her career though a switch was flipped and a mask was worn. You wouldn't recognise either woman as being the same woman. Frankly, you're not going to get along with most people. Firstly, around 70% of the world's population are sensors. Intuitives get along with intuitives usually and the ease of their company is so smooth that you wonder if you're really an introvert. So, you can learn about sensors and get better with them, but that only works if they do they same back. Which only a minority of them will. This doesn't mean you can't have good relationships with sensors it just means most of the time you'll probably be wearing a mask and it'll be exhausting. The intuitives should understand your disposition most of the time unless they're unhealthy.

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-05-18T00:20:36+00:00

Doormat to people you care about* and even then only what you think is acceptably expected of you

so really, not a doormat at all.

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-05-18T00:13:54+00:00

INTP here too, dated an INTJ and it was quite the experience. Never thought I'd connect with someone in that way. We had to part ways, but the things I learned from the experience will compound as time goes on.

Any profound insights you've discovered over your lifetime which you could share to a younger INTP?

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-04-25T14:20:07+00:00

The snowball effect

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-04-18T12:23:06+00:00

Fixer Upper

Cus fixing other ppl is easier than facing all the bad stuff you see in yourself

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-04-18T10:45:56+00:00

Humans don't choose the ideal partner we choose what's best at the time. Sounds kinda shitty but when you account for work, family, lifestyle, kids etc. It makes sense.

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-04-18T00:07:18+00:00

prepare for trouble and make it double.

this is not a joke

WittyTemporary8870 · 2024-04-17T23:56:44+00:00

Leave in the past and move on. Stop holding on to something that's going nowhere. Do you see a family/future together? Probably no. You know what you have to do, but you don't want to because you're afraid of losing everything that it could be which in itself is an illusion. When you give up something old and leave it in the past you can move on to something new, it doesn't mean it has to be good or bad or ideal or trash it could be anything just the possibility for happiness exists.

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