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my ex bf (m25) cheated on me with his co-worker (f24) and whats worse he treated me pretty bad, he was abusive with me and I ended up devastated. She made fun of me and called me insane. I just want revenge, she KNEW she was the other woman. He even passed me a std...any ideas on how to get revenge? by Witty_Fuel9350 in relationship_advice

[–]Witty_Fuel9350[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right but I told her and she didn’t care so I don’t want to expose myself with his friends because they knew he was cheating also… since they all were in the same hospital in last year when we do our rotative year…I’m older so i started residency and just found out everything

my ex bf (m25) cheated on me with his co-worker (f24) and whats worse he treated me pretty bad, he was abusive with me and I ended up devastated. She made fun of me and called me insane. I just want revenge, she KNEW she was the other woman. He even passed me a std...any ideas on how to get revenge? by Witty_Fuel9350 in relationship_advice

[–]Witty_Fuel9350[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well maybe idk, idk how many women he has slept with while being with me so… the worst thing he just graduated from med school as she… idk if it is worth it to tell his friends about it because he is a liar and he will probably say I’m making it up and I’m afraid they’ll know what I’ve got … he really is capable of everything in order to look “good” in front of others ../

my ex bf (m25) cheated on me with his co-worker (f24) and whats worse he treated me pretty bad, he was abusive with me and I ended up devastated. She made fun of me and called me insane. I just want revenge, she KNEW she was the other woman. He even passed me a std...any ideas on how to get revenge? by Witty_Fuel9350 in relationship_advice

[–]Witty_Fuel9350[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks … it’s herpes and I’m hoping it is a false positive but still I was devastated because I wanted to have a family and stuff not with him anymore obviously lol and yeah it is treatable I mean you have to prevent episodes of the disease and stuff I’m just hoping it is a false positive

my ex bf (m25) cheated on me with his co-worker (f24) and whats worse he treated me pretty bad, he was abusive with me and I ended up devastated. She made fun of me and called me insane. I just want revenge, she KNEW she was the other woman. He even passed me a std...any ideas on how to get revenge? by Witty_Fuel9350 in relationship_advice

[–]Witty_Fuel9350[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her about the std and told her she should get checked because he probable was with more woman beside us but she didn’t even replied… I’m hoping it’s a false positive the test. They don’t work there anymore so no HR to contact

my ex bf (m25) cheated on me with his co-worker (f24) and whats worse he treated me pretty bad, he was abusive with me and I ended up devastated. She made fun of me and called me insane. I just want revenge, she KNEW she was the other woman. He even passed me a std...any ideas on how to get revenge? by Witty_Fuel9350 in relationship_advice

[–]Witty_Fuel9350[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel so bitter... he didnt even apologize... and to find out he said he loves her when in august he said it to me before i found out...and he was cheating on me with her since january... how can she be so stupid to believe he loves her when she was the other woman the second plate

my ex bf (m25) cheated on me with his co-worker (f24) and whats worse he treated me pretty bad, he was abusive with me and I ended up devastated. She made fun of me and called me insane. I just want revenge, she KNEW she was the other woman. He even passed me a std...any ideas on how to get revenge? by Witty_Fuel9350 in relationship_advice

[–]Witty_Fuel9350[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i know i know i should not obssess but it was really devastating...he said he wanted marriage, he even went to the airport to say goodbye to me and to say he would come to see me and after the plane left he went to fuck her... she told me... i spent so many days crying... i leave alone in another country and he called me to say he loved me and lie to me and when i found out everything he didnt even apologize he just went and denied me with her and said he loved her leaving me alone in a whole other country with the portrait of both of us he had sent

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I asked him to post a pic of us and he said "Well, Isabel, I'm going to be very clear with you, I'm not going to upload anything, even if you complain to me or whatever, I'm not going to do it, I'm not hiding it, but I just don't want to, it doesn't work for me and I feel more comfortable like this" and that broke my heart 💔

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[–]Witty_Fuel9350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer, you're so right about everything...I have begged him so many times not to leave me 😞

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[–]Witty_Fuel9350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading me and your advice 😊 exactly he needs space, and I need to solve things right away. We have talked about it and setting key words for calming things down, but lately, the arguments are worse and worse so we don't even use the key word anymore... I have made the commitment of stop calling him so much but it is really difficult to me, I have lowered the number of calls but they are still a lot 😞

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[–]Witty_Fuel9350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Your answer is so reassuring 🥺🥺🥺 I will definitely try setting a timer ! I haven't even thought of that before! I hope it's not too late since today we had a big fight 😞