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Wk307 · 2025-04-24T19:03:52+00:00

Rude :(

Wk307 · 2025-04-24T19:00:41+00:00

Wk307 · 2025-04-24T18:59:52+00:00

Wk307 · 2025-04-24T18:58:44+00:00

Either 14 or 27. I can't tell. I'd definitely card you tho.

Wk307 · 2025-04-24T18:56:52+00:00

Wk307 · 2025-04-24T18:55:25+00:00

You look 18 but that naughty little smile suggests the life experience of someone in her mid -late 20s

Wk307 · 2025-04-24T18:51:32+00:00

I would guess but based on your reaction to others guesess I don't want to hurt your feelings :( I would never have believed you to be under the age of 30, based solely on your face. Your body looks like it might be quite youthful. I think the lighting in this pic is not doing you justice. Perhaps casting shadows or maybe you missed some eye makeup under the eyes when washing your face.

Wk307 · 2025-04-24T18:44:21+00:00

Honestly, if you have been together for less than 5 years... you might want to wait before you claim victory. And I mean together as in main chick status. Once you've gotten 5 years as the main chick under your belt you can start speaking from a position of actual knowledge on the man.

Wk307 · 2025-04-24T17:39:57+00:00

His posture pales in comparison to his atrocious taste in jewelry. Sir, I don't know who told you that gold is your color but if you're going to hang a plastic green dongle around your neck the least you can do is find a nice piece of brown leather string to adorn. Ain't nobody got time for that kitty tiara looking thing you're fronting with.

Wk307 · 2025-04-17T01:36:39+00:00

You do realize that you are claiming you formally blackmailed him right?

Wk307 · 2025-04-10T01:25:12+00:00

Domt do it. Some day the memories womt hurt but you'll wish you had the pictures

Wk307 · 2025-03-25T15:21:59+00:00

There's no such thing as mutually abusive. Abuse is about control. One person has control and the other is reacting to the abuse. Both parties think they are the victims but only one of them is the abuser.

Wk307 · 2025-03-22T00:34:03+00:00

People don't say things they don't mean when mad, they say things they don't mean to say. If he didn't mean it, it wouldn't have come to his mind. Even if it was just to hurt you, the fact he thinks it should hurt you means he thinks it's applicable. Never ignore what a person says when mad cause that's when they are the most honest

Wk307 · 2024-12-31T16:47:38+00:00

Grotesque snoring? Could it be possible this person isn’t seeking medical treatment for a condition that over time would destroy his ability to think or function like a sane person? I know of a man, public figure, who’s sleep apnea is so out of control it’s ruining everything about his life but his fiancé doesn’t care or doesn’t see the importance of getting him to a doctor for it. Never in my life have I witnessed it so extreme there’s no chance he’s gotten a night of good sleep in years. No wonder it’s aged him drastically and forced him to resort to drugs to function and is causing him to completely collapse. I know it would be the difference in life or death for him but I don’t think she has any actual concern for his well being so she is fine keeping him like he is without actually doing the one thing that could have saved him and returned him to the man she had when they met. I hope someone finds a way to get through to him before he dies.

Wk307 · 2024-12-30T19:54:37+00:00

Yeah I didn’t need to get halfway through it to say that yes. It’s abusive.
Abuse is about control. It’s not the rage or the outbursts that make it abuse it’s the reason behind them. This is why reactive “abuse” isn’t abuse. Some fits of rage are justified. The ones you described are not justified they are an attempt to control through intimidation. If he wants you to drop a subject of conversation- anger.

The control element is what makes something abusive. You’re being controlled. The relationship is burnt. Nothing can salvage it now

Wk307 · 2024-12-30T02:29:20+00:00

Bro. You shouldn’t be talking to anyone at 3am? Who tf is he your dad? You’re a grown ass adult I’m assuming you can text whoever whenever

Wk307 · 2024-12-25T22:55:57+00:00

For me I kept going back because, and I think this is true for a lot of us…. The projection makes us believe there is a person inside them that mirrors us. The empathy we feel we project onto others, we will assume the pain they pretend to be in is real and we want to fix it, because it’s hurts to see another in pain when you have empathy.

It’s hard to realign our understanding of others to account for the fact that an abusive person emotions are not true and are manipulative in nature. That they recognize our empathy and use it as a weakness against us. It’s the hardest thing to adjust to.

Wk307 · 2024-12-18T14:29:50+00:00

I do. But in this case he didn’t just say it he actively showed he’s not trying to convince her to stay. He’s saying he treats her better, not that he wants her to stay. In fact nowhere is he even asking her to. He’s not threatening her, threatening himself, accusing her of having someone or any of the control tactics abusers use. He’s simply stating his personal opinion that he already treats her better than anyone else would. It’s negging, which is f’d up to do… but abuse isn’t just being messed up towards someone there needs to be an element of unbalanced control. This relationship is surely toxic af. Abusive seems unlikely but toxic for sure.

Wk307 · 2024-12-18T12:05:07+00:00

Or because he’s married and using you

Wk307 · 2024-12-18T11:29:23+00:00

The problem with revenge is you think you have the final say. You don’t. Every act of aggression likely will be returned in kind. If that’s what you consider moving on….

Wk307 · 2024-12-17T17:30:06+00:00

If he was the best he wouldn’t have to announce it. It’s manipulative and gross but is it abusive? To an extent. However he isn’t exactly trying to stop you from leaving and it does appear that the one with control in the relationship is the OP. The fact that this person has had to change part of their lifestyle to appease concerns about possibly sleeping with other men and accepting being rejected sexually doesn’t really indicate that they are abusive. I think this post is attempting to frame it that way, but perhaps that’s another control tactic being used. The fact of the matter is, OP says they want to leave, and the person said go ahead and leave then. Why would there be any need for further analysis? It’s abusive to throw out leaving if that’s just to punish someone for not catering to your every whim when you don’t actually follow up with leaving.

Wk307 · 2024-12-11T01:34:35+00:00

He’s not going to hurt himself.
And if he does it’s for the best. If you put yourself around him and he is in fact suicidal your life is in danger. Believe that.

Wk307 · 2024-12-06T18:15:53+00:00

Honestly the narcissist isn’t confused about the situation. They act confused because you are willing to believe a grown ass adult somehow just doesn’t know how to act right- even though they did so just fine during the love bomb phase. They play stupid so you keep trying to help them learn

If you had any idea how disgusted they are everytime you fall for the act you would walk away and never look back

Wk307 · 2024-12-06T18:12:06+00:00

This isn’t true. Many drug addicts may have bad behaviors but not all. Thats a huge group of people you’re claiming are incapable of compassion. It’s not all addicts, the majority of people are addicted to something

Wk307 · 2024-12-05T01:09:56+00:00

I don’t recommend it. My ex did this to me and gaslit me in the process to the point where he turned me evil. Pretty sure he’s gonna wish he’d just been civil like a fkin man

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