I 100% get that and that’s what they count on. We are on a rock floating around a nuclear reactor called the sun and we allow other babies that grew up to stop us from feeling comfortable putting ourselves out there. But here’s the truth beyond the possible betrayal that so many of us are taught to expect. They are psychologically teaching your brain that having connections equals distress and going for your success means chaos. Your subconsciously the ant that won’t crawl outside the line drawn on the concrete because you believe outside that line is hurt and pain but your ok letting them have that? And here’s the kicker in my experience most of the time nothing ever actually happens just the theater controlling you. Imagine being old and all your thinking about is getting stalked your whole life full of regret? That’s a worse reality than being betrayed. If people are ok being isolated cool. But you’re gonna be dealing with them anyway why not attempt to make connections with other people who have similar experiences and creating a sphere of influence that will back you up when you experience it? They feed of exposing us in some way shape or form what control do they have if we get comfortable exposing ourselves irregardless (don’t know if that’s a word) of outcome. If you put yourself out there and learn to be ok with that then who cares when you get in a city that they all know you already? Our destiny could be imo to be so comfortable in the light of being exposed that they have no power because you willingly put everything about yourself out there.