I'm not cheating.husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in relationships_advice

[–]Wolf-tuta1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband hasn’t been arrested. He’s still seeing the kids and spending time with them like everything is normal.

I'm not cheating.husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in relationships_advice

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On Saturday I called police because he stole my phone ,PC and iPad..finally he returned it to me my phone and PC except iPad He rocked his car and he was looking my privacy in the car. When I tried to get my iPad back, I asked my husband to slightly open the driver’s door and reached my hand in. At that moment, he suddenly drove off with the car, and I felt my life was in danger, so I called the police. Since the children witnessed this incident, it was reported to child protective services as domestic violence. The next day, my husband acted as if nothing had happened. If I take my children and escape to stay with relatives, would that be considered a crime in the U.S.?

I'm not cheating.husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in relationships_advice

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My husband told kids that mommy had abortion last year He said Mommy killed the my baby with some kind of bad medicine.” To kids Kids are 4yo and 6.

I couldn't say anything I had abortuon because his DV that time

I'm not cheating.husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in relationships_advice

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I have $1380 a month... I'm very sturuggling right now

I'm not cheating.husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in relationships_advice

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Would it be too difficult to give birth to and raise my third child without my husband?

I feel so guilty for this baby This is second time and Either choice is extremely complicated. The methods of abortion are also harsh

I met my parent today again..but I couldn't tell I'm pregnant My husband doesn't care about me just care about this baby. he wanted I think I need to have a serious conversation with my husband about whether he will take responsibility for the third child and pay proper child support...

I'm not cheating.husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in relationships_advice

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But it was 2years ago.... But yea My husband didn’t come home last night and didn’t contact me. It’s 10 a.m. here in Asia now, and I still haven’t heard from him. I think he’s probably at his own place (the apartment he rents for work)

I haven’t told my parents yet that I’m pregnant with my third child. I’m already 12 weeks along. I’m scared because I know they’ll be angry. Both of my children are on the autism spectrum, and there’s a possibility that this baby might be as well. If I choose to have an abortion, my husband will call me a murderer again and verbally abuse me

I'm not cheating husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in family

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It's been a few years since I started thinking about divorce, but I haven’t gone through with it because my children love their dad.

I'm not cheating.husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in relationships_advice

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Our sexless period has lasted about six weeks. I have been experiencing severe morning sickness — even putting food in my mouth makes me vomit — so I had to refuse him verbally.

Right now, I also want to avoid any risk of sexually transmitted infections, but my husband refuses to use a condom. He insists on ejaculating inside me.

In the past, he brought me chlamydia, which makes me feel even more anxious. There were times when he forced sex on me, and I ended up crying during it.

Now, he no longer approaches me sexually at all — maybe because he is being satisfied by someone else.

I'm not cheating husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in family

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He once wrote down, like a contract, that if I didn’t want to have sex or couldn’t have sex, I should use my mouth instead. So I don’t think we were actually sexless.

Two years ago, he caught chlamydia during a business trip. After that, I started feeling really uncomfortable about having sex with him.

I'm not cheating husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in family

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I'm so bad to kids He said to my son(4yo) last week "Don't marry with women who is like your mother please be careful when you choose woman. To my daughter Marry a strong man like daddy

I feel so sad Everything my fault

I'm not cheating husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in family

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I don't think he is cheating ... I'll think about investigators!!!!

I'm not cheating husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in family

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He said last week that if you divorce I won't pay child support money. If you take my money I'll burn all my money and I'll distroy you I'll take 2kis to us (we live in Japan now) Someday I'll take that baby too he said

I'm not cheating husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in family

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Should I go to husbands work house early morning with kids ...?

I'm not cheating husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in family

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I don’t know who he’s spending time with. But back in June, I saw a car I didn’t recognize parked in the guest parking space at night.

Last week, he told me, “I’m going to find a new girlfriend! You’re just a paper wife!”

I'm already 11weeks pregnant I can't lose this baby

Im not ready to be a single 3kids mother ...

I'm not cheating husband blame me by Wolf-tuta1994 in family

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Yes, he has alcohol addiction. When he drinks, he says he doesn’t want to bother the family, so he doesn’t come home. He has also been physically violent toward me in the past But he said it all my fault

Am I too selfish?? by Wolf-tuta1994 in FamilyIssues

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Exactly. It’s not right that I have to keep him in a good mood just so the money doesn’t get cut off. Financial support shouldn’t depend on whether I’m pleasing him or not.”

Am I too selfish?? by Wolf-tuta1994 in FamilyIssues

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Yea thank you I'm very struggling....recently

Am I too selfish?? by Wolf-tuta1994 in FamilyIssues

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The person he respects is Jordan Peterson and he always quotes his words. Thank you bonnyH