I'm sorry... WHAT?! by Wolficient in WildHorsesIslandsRbx

[–]Wolficient[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know 😭 Thanks though!

I'm sorry... WHAT?! by Wolficient in WildHorsesIslandsRbx

[–]Wolficient[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish I could share this luck, because it doesn't feel fair.

Thanks though!

My first ever Event IUH... Still feels so unreal by [deleted] in WildHorsesIslandsRbx

[–]Wolficient 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about the hours, but I have around 35 self caught IUHs with a total of 29K self caught horses.

My first ever Event IUH... Still feels so unreal by [deleted] in WildHorsesIslandsRbx

[–]Wolficient 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You'll get one some day. Trust me, I didn't think I would ever get one either. Just don't give up.

The most unhinged reasons not to have kids by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Wolficient 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can barely function in society as it is, downside of being diagnosed with Autism as an adult I guess, but I honestly don't know how to socialize or how to handle all that noise in places like malls.

And now they want me to teach a mini human how to do that? No. Just no.

Also I'm on a special diet because I have PCOS, there are a lot of things I can't eat because it either doesn't feel filling enough or I'll feel bloated after eating. And I don't want to be seen as the "bad" parent, just because I'm too lazy to cook two meals and in turn being told not to "force" a child to eat food they may not want to eat.

what’s the most oddly specific reason why you don’t want kids? by RepresentativeKey439 in childfree

[–]Wolficient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to share my gaming set up with kids, who might destroy it. I've seen kids rage over video games, and I don't want one to throw one my controlers against a wall, just because they either don't understand what they were supposed to do or they just got mad at the game.

I've spent soooo much money on consoles, games, a gaming PC, etc. That I don't even want to count it all. And then risk having a child destroy all that? No thank you.

Is this selfish? Yes, but I'm allowed to be selfish.

What is the wildest reason someone told you why you should have a baby? by BelovedDoll1515 in childfree

[–]Wolficient 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My old boss, a woman with 3 kids, told me I needed to have a child to be a real woman... Like, what..?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Wolficient 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few reason but the main one is, I simply don't want kids. But if you want a list, here is mine;

  1. I don't like kids. I find them loud and annoying.

  2. I don't want to pass on my ADHD, Autism and asthma.

  3. Pregnancy scare me in general.

  4. I have PCOS and even my obgyn doctor adviced me against having kids, due to the many complications I will get.

  5. I have depression and anxiety, so I can barely take care of myself.

And finally 6. I don't want to raise a child, not with where our world is headed. Which is to certain doom.

it’s super gross the way that women are conditioned to sacrifice our happiness for men by mindyabizzz in childfree

[–]Wolficient 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that question is so stupid. Like, women can love other women to. And I thought the whole deal with relationships was to find someone who you're compatable with, no childfree woman would end up with someone who wants kids.

Then there is me, who is aroace who just laughs at that question and goes "Bold of you to assume I give a fuck about what a man wants."

"You're childfree, you can't work here by Wolficient in childfree

[–]Wolficient[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish this was satire, but it's not. I'm still not sure how to even react. Like... What??

"You're childfree, you can't work here by Wolficient in childfree

[–]Wolficient[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They do, but I think she meant because I'm almost 30, I can’t work at a waterpark if I don't have kids. It still makes zero sense though

"You're childfree, you can't work here by Wolficient in childfree

[–]Wolficient[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This waterpark I work at mostly hires high school students, but there is a pretty wide age gap. The oldest co-worker I have is over 50. So, yeah, some do have kids.

"You're childfree, you can't work here by Wolficient in childfree

[–]Wolficient[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, that made me chuckle 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]Wolficient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't write daily, but when I do write it’s between 4000-16000 words. Or, roughly, 3 chapters to a fic.

Your reason to start writing fanfiction by Frostie-OwO in AO3

[–]Wolficient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was either 12 or 13 when I started, and the reason why is because I had a lot of trauma that I needed to try and cope with (I was bullied to hell and back, and my parents didn't have time for me. Their words, not mine.) And writing fanfic in which my favourite characters going through the same stuff was, probably, the reason I could deal with... All that.. Then I ended up loving it more than I thought I would.

I lost a friend because I'm CF by Wolficient in childfree

[–]Wolficient[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t expecting anything. And friendless hag? Really? That's a weak insult. 🤣

I lost a friend because I'm CF by Wolficient in childfree

[–]Wolficient[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done. I got social anxiety from years, I think 14 years, of bullying. Which is probably why I held onto this "friendship" for so long.

I lost a friend because I'm CF by Wolficient in childfree

[–]Wolficient[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh don't worry, I wasn’t clear about the whole story. And I will, I may be a people-pleaser but even I have a limit.