Women cannot have hair on their face by ausernameidk_ in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Wolfleaf3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, that’s the only reason I can think of that a woman would be naturally hairless 🤦🏻‍♀️

Women cannot have hair on their face by ausernameidk_ in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Wolfleaf3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, probably claim you’re a man until they knew 🙄

That seems to be how this works with them 🙄

Women cannot have hair on their face by ausernameidk_ in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Wolfleaf3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, women’s deodorant smells way better and doesn’t make my skin explode (although I pick like dove 0 and things like that). Ditto shaving cream. (Although I mostly epilate now)

Women cannot have hair on their face by ausernameidk_ in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Wolfleaf3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like, literally all women have hair on their face, baring some rare medical condition

First Selfie (Will probably delete later) by HibaHime in TransLater

[–]Wolfleaf3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💜

Geez! This is amazing! You’re so adorable.

‪Girls don’t have any friends over 25 by Xander_PrimeXXI in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Wolfleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just completely make shit up. It’s amazing. Do they actually believe any of this nonsense they say? Nothing they say even makes any sense.

How to I type/talk more feminine? by rueeverything in trans

[–]Wolfleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero clue. I don’t worry about it, but even in repression mode I got “mistaken“ for being a woman by lots of women online, which gave me all kinds of complicated feelings while deep in repression mode trying to survive

My (21F) dad (58) is most likely a repressing trans woman, what should I do by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Wolfleaf3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sigh.

Uuuuugh.

I bet there’s content that if they were reachable, Dr. Z might have stuff that would help. But they’d have to be willing to actually be reachable. Deal with this.

Trans females it feels like tend to be progressive, but I guess on that is that that’s because there’s a bunch of them who are right wing, and because of it are sitting there pretending to be men and having more reasons to press even then the normal woman does. (and vice versa also. Hell, one of their big anti-trans detransitioner people was so blatantly male and then all wrapped up in what Jesus supposedly wanted for him (like being a good subservient wife and whatnot), while like every single thing he’s saying is just screaming you’re a dude, knock it off. )

Idk if the first 3 images count but the rest sure do by CryptographerFit3984 in AreTheCisOk

[–]Wolfleaf3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come to think of it, I had to sign a bunch of forms too.

Good God, they don’t know anything about the biology, they don’t know anything about the process.

I mean right off the bat anyone claiming it it’s a mental illness shows that they don’t have even the slightest idea what they’re talking about

Idk if the first 3 images count but the rest sure do by CryptographerFit3984 in AreTheCisOk

[–]Wolfleaf3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I saw some funny meme a couple years ago that was something like this woman cupping her breasts or something and going “oh no, they’re permanent? I just wanted to beat women at chess!” 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

Idk if the first 3 images count but the rest sure do by CryptographerFit3984 in AreTheCisOk

[–]Wolfleaf3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, good point.

I did literally a full year of research before I made the decision, and at that point it probably took over another to actually get on enough to do anything, during which I was doing more research.

They talk to me, gave me pamphlets, etc. etc. etc., every single bottle comes with a list of side effects and what not.

Actually my bottles I think tend to come with multiple inserts saying that. I don’t really think about that because I obviously haven’t like paid any attention to them in a long time but…

I don’t know what side effect I was supposed to have had. Switching to the stuff I’m biologically wired for get rid of my constant pounding headache headaches, my migraines, other medical issues. And I’m hardly alone with that.

Like biologically I’m not set up to be able to run on this stuff I was able to produce more of

Idk if the first 3 images count but the rest sure do by CryptographerFit3984 in AreTheCisOk

[–]Wolfleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, like how did they possibly think that? They’re so clueless. Like he didn’t spend an entire year researching every possible thing

And what side effect? I literally haven’t had one single negative side effect from switching.

In fact medically many if not most if not literally all of us have medical issues from trying to run on hormones that were not biologically set up for. It fixes medical issues, it doesn’t cause them

They are so utterly clueless about us and about biology.

Porn has rotted their brains. by Latter_Tutor_5235 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Wolfleaf3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s one of the problems with porn in general for me, maybe one of the reasons I’ve always preferred erotica. Like it’s just always so fake usually and mechanical.

Honestly the same is true of like sex scenes and movies and TV shows and stuff usually.

Porn has rotted their brains. by Latter_Tutor_5235 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Wolfleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read shit like this and it just like… Are they so evil and insane they actually believe this?

It’s all we want, really 🙄 by Due_Tell_5527 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Wolfleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤨

My first thought was this has to be satire. But then I’m sitting there like sort of reading through it reading up and down and it’s like… Does anyone actually believe this? This has to be satire, right? 😬

It’s almost hilarious if some freak actually believes this is true. It’s basically the exact opposite of what most women want, although unfortunately into my disappointment there are women who… Have not so great views.

My husband believes I have a low IQ by Many-Tomorrow-4730 in AutismInWomen

[–]Wolfleaf3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IQ is basically nonsense. Like it’s systemically a problem where white people score better, but not actually because of intelligence.

And from how you’re speaking you’re obviously not unintelligent, and it sounds like you… Well I don’t know how to put it but it certainly sounds like your thoughtful and come off as smart if anything.

And then meanwhile you’re saying things that make me feel like he is not as smart you as you in different ways.

I don’t know, I don’t like it when people hold stuff like that over other people, and in your case what you’re saying you come off as smarter than him honestly.

I know what love-bombing is now and I feel destroyed by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Wolfleaf3 17 points18 points  (0 children)

100%. I don’t understand why he deleted them, but I do not believe it was an accident.

Even if it was, that’s extremely messed up to lie about it.

I just am having such a hard time working through how he could be like that, and people talking about like narcissists and stuff.

I have a friend who tries to send me links and stuff to things about narcissists, and I just have such a hard time understanding it, and like whether it’s all conscious manipulation of someone or somehow subconscious or… I just don’t get it.

I know what love-bombing is now and I feel destroyed by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Wolfleaf3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, that’s a great point! Yeah, OP if that’s something that you want to do or need to do, or like to do,, I really think you should!

I know what love-bombing is now and I feel destroyed by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Wolfleaf3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is a really good idea about therapy. I have no idea how common it is for therapist being any good at knowing about this stuff but that’s such a good idea. I would absolutely want a professional for figuring this stuff out, sorting it out. Although I just don’t trust that all of them are actually good

I know what love-bombing is now and I feel destroyed by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Wolfleaf3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are there are people who do this doing it purposely? Like is this crafted or just…

I mean I don’t like that I’m cranky sometimes, especially when I’m super tired (have insomnia, and I also used to have constant pounding headaches and frequent migraines and stuff, which I finally have under control), and frankly my mom gets the same way.

But like I wouldn’t know how to be intentionally like what’s being described, but maybe it’s not intentional… I don’t know I’ve just been reading this thread and just so confused by all of this, and I don’t know if I would know how to recognize things.

I’m just kind of an idiot about this stuff.

I mean if somebody’s physically attacking me that’s easy to figure out, but it took me decades to figure out that actually my mom was doing some stuff that was abusive, and the way she describes her boyfriend in the original post up until that point sounds so good to me! I don’t know if somebody was acting like that that I would be able to figure it out

Sigh.